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[-] yetAnotherUser@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 1 week ago

I wish they had tested all 8 scenarios: Male/female participant, male/female body, catcalled/not catcalled.

Because even as a man I don't feel comfortable being alone at a subway station at night. Nor can I imagine would I then enjoy being catcalled.

I wonder how much your VR body seen in a mirror affects this. My gut says not a lot but more data would've been great.

Now, if your own VR body does affect your reaction there must be bodies which maximize/minimize reactions. That'd be fun to test. You don't even have to limit yourself to human bodies, what if you're, say, a dinosaur (with body height still being the same)?

[-] minorkeys@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

But that would be actual science and not whatever the slop study in the article is.

[-] greygore@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I feel like if you’re going to slag off the study as “slop” you should at least follow the links to the study itself where you can see that they did in fact have a control group who were posed general questions instead of catcalling. They didn’t switch genders because that wasn’t the purpose of the study.

[-] echodot@feddit.uk 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

They didn’t switch genders because that wasn’t the purpose of the study.

The purpose of the study being to get the results they wanted to get. That's not science.

It's basically a study of "do people like being assaulted". No one does regardless of gender, but they took that as women don't like being assaulted and men pretending to be women don't like being assaulted. Therefore men pretending to be women in VR don't like to be assaulted.

What sort of conclusion is that.

[-] Wren@lemmy.today 3 points 1 week ago

It would help to read the study so you don't have to be wrong about things.

[-] Fizz@lemmy.nz -1 points 1 week ago

Thats a slop study through and through

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[-] JcbAzPx@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Turns out walking through a sketchy area and being harassed are scary no matter what genitalia you have.

[-] undefined@lemmy.hogru.ch 6 points 1 week ago
[-] HexesofVexes@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-025-19418-4.pdf

Paper itself above. Need a deeper reading with my notes but on the surface the stats are so-so. They check normality, but don't confirm linearity (use of pmcc will not be valid without - there are also a few other conditions to check for hypothesis testing with PMCC if memory serves), use of a continuous test (PMCC, ANOVA, unpaired t's) for discrete (likert) data is also little controversial, but generally condoned.

As for the conclusion, not a psych phd so I'll assume they know their stuff!

[-] colonelp4nic@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

my personal rule of thumb is that if it's published in Nature, Cell, or another well-regarded journal, the statistical and experimental methodologies are almost certainly solid. Do you think I should adjust that rule going forward?

[-] HexesofVexes@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Honestly, I always poke the stats no matter how good the journal. The best way to read any article is as a skeptic (the onus is on the writer to prove their point), and any small irregularity is something to be queried.

No matter how good the journal, it's only as good as the reviewers, and reviewers are humans too. Odds are a paper in nature is all above board, but I'm somewhat of a pedant when it comes to checking test conditions.

[-] udon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Kind of unfortunate, that even here on lemmy most comments immediately flip to "but as a man I also feel scared". True, but it's not what this study is about. Maybe in 2026 we can try to just read something like this and take it as a prompt that, maybe, some things are not about us. Maybe we should do something about catcalling. We can talk about violence against men and loneliness at a different occasion.

Living in Japan, the country famous for being completely safe for everyone, this gap recently became clearer to me. As it turns out, when people talk about safety in Japan, they primarily mean that you won't be beaten up and nobody steals your wallet. But there are so many weird creeps around here. I'm really quite happy I don't live here as a woman.

[-] Valmond@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 week ago

My SO praises Sweden so much, nobody catcalls and people only bother you because you don't have your bicycle helmet and that (only) annoys all genders.

[-] prime_number_314159@lemmy.world -1 points 1 week ago

The language of the post says something that cannot be (meaningfully) derived without a control group of people that didn't experience a counterpoint: "... the situation of being a young woman alone at night in a subway station being enough to generate the sense of fear."

As I understand it, everyone in the study experienced all of that in combination, so any subset of those things may have been enough to generate a sense of fear: being alone, being at night, being a young woman, or being on a subway station.

The common objection I see is that everyone feels fear alone on a subway station at night, so the statement is misleading. That matches my personal experience, so I also see that statement as misleading, regardless of any work done by the study.

[-] ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

My guess is that the men who don't think they'd be bothered by cat-calling are imagining a scenario where there are lots of other people around and the risk of being physically attacked is very low. (Something like the stereotypical image of construction workers whistling at a woman walking by them on a busy sidewalk.) Being on a nearly-empty subway platform with the only other guy nearby accosting you is a genuinely risky situation even without pretending that you're a woman.

One time I was walking on the sidewalk when a car with several young women drove by and one of them leaned out the window and yelled something at me. I didn't hear what she said but I like to think that it was positive and it made my day, but the caveat is that I did not feel like I was in any physical danger at all from them.

[-] Wren@lemmy.today 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

You said it. I compared notes, once, with my partner at the time, who occasionally dressed a bit flamboyant. Being shouted at made him feel annoyed and sad, which sucks, but he thought that put him on the same level as me.

The difference was he could recall each time he was catcalled, and was surprised to hear it happened just about daily to me. Even more surprised to hear that sometimes when I didn't respond, guys have followed me and kept shouting. Sometimes in groups. Extremely surprised to hear that on a few occasions I've actually had to run from these groups.

Catcalling is easy to ignore, but considering I literally had to run from strangers, I still slide my keys between my knuckles and get ready to sprint whenever I hear it.

[-] Wren@lemmy.today 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Interesting experiment.

The article on Phys.org

The paper on Nature.com

Some very condensed info:

Women disproportionately experience gender based violence and aggression in the wild. Researchers wanted to see if the experience of men being harassed and catcalled in a woman's avatar could promote empathy and understanding. This experiment on 36 male students (average age of 23) was based on other studies that found similar results, including a study on male offenders of gender based violence — to test if first-person VR experiences as women could increase pro-social behaviors.

The students had "no prior experience" with interpersonal aggression or catcalling as victims or perpetrators, measured on a scale with a maximum threshold.

The scene began in a bedroom, where participants were able to move and see themselves as their avatar in a mirror.

In a control group, the participants were asked innocuous questions instead of being catcalled.

Edit: For anyone asking: Why didn't they study why men don't feel safe? You can look up and post those studies. Nothing is stopping you. This is about the prosocial effects of this VR scenario. Need more support? !mensliberation@lemmy.ca and !mensmentalhealth@lemmy.world are two great communities to discuss men's issues.

[-] Mothra@mander.xyz 3 points 1 week ago

I haven't read this study but what matters to me is, are these same men catcallers themselves? Most men I know don't catcall and already understand it's unpleasant so I'm not surprised this is their reaction

[-] chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

There’s a numerical asymmetry to stuff like this. You could have only 1 in 1000 men be catcallers yet a single catcaller could catcall thousands of women on their way to work (stereotypically from a construction site as they walk by).

[-] Breezy@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Having done construction with temps who did this, they indeed catcall anything that looks like a female. 2 different people were like this and i yelled at both to no avail. They were also just ahitty people to even talk to. I had both of them black listed after one day.

[-] chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Construction often ends up with the worst sorts of people. I have multiple friends and family who have worked in the business and they’ve dealt with people who would regularly no-show (not even call in sick), show up drunk, high on meth, and do all kinds of dangerous / stupid stuff including throwing heavy tools down from upper floors, walking around without paying attention (and falling off scaffolding etc).

My uncle also had to deal with mafia guys involved with construction unions.

[-] Breezy@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

The ones on meth are some of the best workers though. Get them on a task and it goes by fast.

[-] IndustryStandard@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Half Life 2 graphics for maximum immersion

[-] mycodesucks@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago
[-] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

bends over

"Nice!"

[-] shalafi@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Male American here. Always had a hard time internalizing women's fear, hard to truly put myself in their shoes. My first wife really woke me.

At the major hospital she worked at, the female nurses often needed escorts through the parking garage. There were alerts about shady characters hanging around. She clearly got roofied one night, and when her friends compared notes, it had happened to many of them at that same restaurant (a really nice one!).

I was a small guy, little punker in the late 80s and early 90s. There were places we couldn't go or the skins or rednecks would get us. And yet that doesn't even begin to compare with the fear women must deal with.

I've had a pretty fucking wild life, but I've never been stalked, drugged or raped.

[-] yucandu@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Did anyone study the opposite? I remember reading about a woman that pretended to be a man for a few weeks to write a book about it, and she described it as something like "soul crushingly lonely".

[-] Meron35@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Norah Vincent. She was particularly beloved by the manosphere because her experience pretending to be a man for 18 months (not just a few weeks) lead to her "conversion" from a feminist to realising that men too have their own problems.

Thought, she personally was already libertarian, and highly critical of trans people, so she reads more like a TERF imo.

Sadly passed away via assisted suicide a few years ago.

Norah Vincent - Wikipedia - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Norah_Vincent

[-] echodot@feddit.uk 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Oh this is such nonsense.

They basically decided "what if we tested a scenario that has been happening in ChatVR for about 10 years."

When I play a shooting game in VR I don't think I'm going to die, I do not experience fear. Any claims along those lines are at best overstated and at worst straight up lies.

Also what's this research supposed to prove anyway?

[-] Passerby6497@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

Ah yes, the ever popular "I've never experienced it, so it doesn't exist" argument.

[-] sol6_vi@lemmy.makearmy.io 1 points 1 week ago

Welcome. Welcome to our study. You have either chosen or been chosen...

[-] blockheadjt@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

I wonder if the disgust:anger ratio is markedly different depending on the gender of the viewer

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I do kinda think everyone should have to Freaky Friday swap with anyone they disdain or don't have empathy for, and also one random swap.

I've never been bothered by catcalling but haven't had it happen in a dangerous feeling situation.

[-] Pippipartner@discuss.tchncs.de 0 points 1 week ago

I looked at the comments.

I knew it was a mistake, I did it anyways.

It sure was a mistake.

[-] binarytobis@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

One time I was one of the very first people to play an MMO so my friends and I all grabbed up some really good names that are always taken before we start. I made six characters, two female, one of which I named “Beyonce” and put effort into making it look as much like her as possible.

On five of the characters people pretty much ignored me entirely, as usual. But when I played Beyonce people wanted to talk to me all the time. They would constantly invite me to stuff, give me things, name drop me in chat. Just kind of gather around me in town. Even other men who were playing female characters just assumed I was a woman.

I don’t know what it was about that character specifically, but it was a valuable insight into the life of women.

[-] taiyang@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I had an extremely similar experience. It was astonishing how quick people assume you are a woman simply by having decent enough grammar and aren't a shitty person.

At least in an MMO it's not dangerous feeling. If anything, it kind of makes it easier to lead groups since you can get people to just do stuff with you. Not great insight into being a women though, people don't generally accept female leadership irl.

[-] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 1 points 1 week ago

I know what we are doing today, Ferb.

[-] Reygle@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

I'm a middle aged Caucasian male. Almost old now. (Is 47 old?) I don't think the sense of fear is a woman exclusive thing. I fear it's becoming a "Critical thinker" thing- I'm not without sympathy though.

My county went over 70% to Trump just over a year ago. Even the people smiling or making polite small talk in public are secret fascists, and they're everywhere. That's my perspective.

[-] Bazell@lemmy.zip 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Any normal person can experience some level of fear in this situation, not just women. I would also experience some level of anxiety even with a fully loaded handgun in pocket.

Catcalling is uncomfortable in many situations, so these are not exactly connected between each other except for both being some negative experience in most of cases.

[-] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 week ago

Your point?

[-] Soup@lemmy.world -1 points 1 week ago

Right, but as a 6’-5” dude I feel a lot less anxiety. When I feel any anxiety I can ignore it and remind myself that the shit I’m conjuring up just doesn’t actually happen here. Meanwhile, my friend has been followed home multiple times and all she did was be vaguely kind to a man. One time she didn’t even ever talk to the dude, he just saw her at the bar and decided that was his night to be a gargantuan piece of filth!

No one is actually going to mug me here but I know many people who constantly need to be on edge around men, even people who are supposed to be their friends. It’s not about feeling anxious, it’s about understanding that women experience all the same anxieties and also have to deal with a bunch of other, far more real, threats all the while being often physically smaller/weaker.

You’re not wrong that both genders experience anxiety but you have just entirely missed the point. When the women in your life deal with this shit I hope you approach the situation with more compassion than whatever drove you to writing that stupid comment.

On another note, carrying a weapon actually makes you more anxious. You’d think it would give a feeling of safety but it really doesn’t, so you best be damn sure you have a real good reason to be packing heat.

[-] falseWhite@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

Was the study carried out on men who actually catcall? Otherwise the results are completely useless.

[-] Hypnotoad_@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 week ago

Completely useless, says the random Internet man about a study of random men

[-] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

I'm sure this badly done study won't trigger knee jerk malicious comments from misandrists who feel validated.

[-] Quibblekrust@thelemmy.club -1 points 1 week ago

What? Men feel empathy? Impossible.

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