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I've never had a WFH job and I generally don't think I'd personally want/be successful with one. My sister is fully remote and she actually hates it, but I think its more the job she doesn't like than the WFH aspect. She says its lonely and isolating on top of disliking her daily tasks. I'm not anti WFH for others at all, to absolutely clear.

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[-] JoeKrogan@lemmy.world 12 points 4 weeks ago

Yes. Im way more efficient at home. Less offfice bullshit.

No commute or shitty weather.

Roll out of bed and online in seconds, just open the laptop lid, leave it in suspend.

My food and can cook a proper meal.

Also can throw on a wash or whatever during the day.

[-] kurmudgeon@lemmy.world 2 points 4 weeks ago

Being home when my packages get delivered is also a nice bonus too! And where I live, I have to deal with a lot of snow. Normally this would be a pain in the ass, but when you work from home, you get to it when you feel like it.

[-] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 4 weeks ago

Working from home, no commute, no clothes, no travel time, no car, easy food.

It's so efficient, it's crazy.

There is real value to working not-at-home, but working from home outweighs it in 99% of situations.

The reality is, and has been, and should be:

LISTEN TO AND TRUST PEOPLE WHEN THEY TELL YOU THEY LIKE OR DON'T LIKE SOMETHING.

[-] DasFaultier@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

I love it and I'm never going back.

  • I save myself the commute (time, gas).
  • In closer to my son's daycare, so it's easier to pick him up of something spontaneously comes up.
  • I'm near my dog throughout the day.
  • I have the fridge close to me. ;-)
  • I can do the laundry or start the vacuum robot at convenient times.
  • I have less interruptions by blergh people.
  • I don't have to sit with my back towards the office door, which in turn was adjacent to the men's room.
  • I can wear casual legwear.
  • Better coffee.
  • My three person office at work is empty anyway, because my colleagues commuted from further apart and are happy about WFH as well. So my options are a) sit alone in my office at home or b) sit alone in my office at work.
  • I'm here for deliveries throughout the day.
  • I don't have that loneliness/isolation issue going, but I do see that it's wildly different among people; some are made for WFH and some need the office to be happy.

EDIT to add, because it's an important factor and I read it in the answers:

  • shitting on your own toilet, with proper toilet tissue, even through remote meetings.
[-] Rai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 4 weeks ago

Working from home: Bidet yaaaay

Office: I bring my own toilet tissue because every bathroom is a nightmare

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[-] Trual@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago

Yes. Cat.

Really one day I realized I rather eat lunch with my cats than any of my coworkers and have never looked back

[-] how_we_burned@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 weeks ago

Really one day I realized I rather eat lunch with my cats than any of my coworkers and have never looked back

I know right. Being with my animals, (and I suppose, even my family) is priceless to me.

I'll have a puddle of cats on my bed whilst the GSD is wedged between my chair and the bed, my lights are off, my room is dark and cool with a silver of light coming through the top shades. I got my tunes playing and I'm not getting interrupted.

I got my computers around me, I'm running multiple processes. If I get tired I can roll onto the bed.

The dog and cats are just happy to hang, we play, do commands and I get to take my dog out for a long lunch time walk.

Sure the cats do talk back a bit but it's so much nicer to hear them meow then colleagues crapping about crap.

I hate going to work. I'm sitting in my office (forced to come in several days a week) and I realise I do not want to speak to a single person. Sometimes I try to avoid speaking to people for an entire day.

I guess it's the 20 years I spent running frontline customer service teams that makes you despise humanity. I am in absolutel awe that the vast majority of humans have mastered the skill of inhaling and exhaling. I'm still astounded that people have worked out how to use the buttons on their shirts, or worked out how to pull clothes onto their bodies.

Seriously I used to image customers sitting at the kitchen table with a shirt over their face and various items of clothes half on their limbs alwhilst trying, but missing, to insert a spoon of cereal into their mouths.

I cannot tell you how many times I've had to make sure the goddam fucking computer was turned on ("oh is that why internet didn't work?") before going through troubleshooting steps, only to be meet with a "oh wow it's working".

Argh.

The other thing about work from home is that 10 years ago when I started my job I might have taken 8 hours to do a particular job.

Now I'm able to do it in 1 hour (ok fine, 5 mins via scripting and shit). I don't need to explain or justify to my boss what I'm doing in the 7 hours as long as the job he pays me to do is getting done (I do time sensitive shit so it's also being available at a moments notice to jump into action).

Most jobs come down to attitude. Now yes I'm doing my own stuff, picking the kids up at 3pm, walking my dog at lunch, but when the shit hits the fan I'm up at 2am, getting stuff back up and running and hitting/beating deadlines. I don't mind the messy complex fucked up job and I don't whinge/give my boss grief (unlike most of the staff I work with). He knows he can give me shit and it'll get done, properly (not half assed), returned with even a bow tied across it and ready to present to his bosses without any further handling.

Otherwise WFH is just so superior to WFO, from a cost, time and sheer efficiency point of view.

[-] HrabiaVulpes@lemmy.world 4 points 3 weeks ago

From home since epidemic started and I would want to hug covid if it was a person.

My productivity in office was always low. Too many distractions, too many inconveniences. Then there is an issue with getting to the office - it's an additional hour of my life they are not paying extra for. And of course - at home I can work while doing simple chores. But the most important is that I can be with my daughters, instead of being just another father that spends half a day at work and the other half sleeping.

[-] gustofwind@lemmy.world 3 points 4 weeks ago

People who socialize in the office hate wfh

People who socialize outside of the office love wfh

[-] axh@lemmy.world 5 points 4 weeks ago

People who don't socialise at all also love wfh

[-] salvaria@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 weeks ago

Your own toilet and good toilet paper instead of the cheapest waxy one-ply 🙏 your own control over the AC/heat instead of freezing/sweating 🙏 never having to smell someone heating up fish in the microwave 🙏

I'm 100% remote and love it

[-] jaschen306@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 weeks ago

Feb 16 2020 was the last day I stepped into an office. The first person to die of COVID in the USA was not far from my office and HR sent everyone home.

At the time, I had a 1 year old son and watched his first steps over a small phone screen. Listen to him say his first word though my headset at work. I fucking hated it.

After COVID, I watched my son grow up and experience everything. From the highs and lows. I love it.

The major downside is that WFH jobs are very few and I had to quit multiple jobs because of RTO policies. Today, I opened a business and just work as a contractor. Even though I don't make as much, I wouldn't change it for the world.

[-] Jeremylikesbourbon@sopuli.xyz 3 points 4 weeks ago

I do a lot of telework and very little on-site work. Like 80% teleworking. I love the telework. I get to sleep 45 minutes later, don't have to get frustrated during my commute, save money on gas, have a discounted auto insurance rate, save on car maintenance, socialize with my coworkers over Teams (which is as much as I need to socialize with them), eat most of my meals with my wife who I enjoy spending time with. All the downtime at my job is now spent doing things like washing dishes, doing laundry, watching TV and movies, and reading, instead of listening to coworkers talk about inane stuff or having admin hover around micro- managing.

[-] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 3 points 4 weeks ago

Depends on how busy I am. If I'm just sitting around waiting to hear from people or deal with shit as it occurs. Yea WFH is nice because I have more shit to occupy my downtime. If I'm busy and need to focus it sucks ass. Also it's nice to interact with the coworkers I actually like in person and I think it makes us get along a lot better and work more effectively. I don't know how many of my coworkers would agree though. All of them except one barely come into the office. It's just my opinion though I wouldn't try to force them in more.

[-] PetteriPano@lemmy.world 2 points 4 weeks ago

I've been fully remote for 12 years. I've had two jobs during that time and moved five times over three countries.

I'm glad I got into my industry on-site. But I've come to realize that I hate cities. I hate commutes. I'd rather take a pay cut and live somewhere cheap.

My wife works from home, too. We have two dogs. We do our meetings, have time for focused work and grab lunch together.

My previous job was definitely not lonely or isolating. I was the go-to-guy for everything, so people video calling all day long. My current job gives me space to get shit done. I've got two days a week blocked off for just deep code mode. No meetings.

If you don't like the job on-site, then you're not going to like it remote. You've got to do something that feels rewarding.

[-] sleepmode@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I am like her, but I hate the commute and that my dogs are lonely. Some workplaces do work-from-home well, and most don't. So that may be part of her problem. Seems to work best at companies where they started and continue to be remote-only.

[-] Gumus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 4 weeks ago

I have a sick setup at home. Plus all the conveniences others mentioned already.

But really, it's being with the family, seeing your kids during the day. I don't want to just come home when they're already asleep.

[-] mech@feddit.org 2 points 4 weeks ago

No. I have ADHD and need external pressure to be productive.
Working from home in my job doesn't signal that pressure.
Most of the tasks that are assigned to me can always wait for another day.
So at home, I mostly just browse Feddit.
At work, I have people around me who can see my screen, and I can hear the issues my colleagues are having.
And since a day of fucking around makes me feel more exhausted at the end than a day working productively, I prefer going to the office.
The bicycle commute that wakes me up in the morning, releases stress in the evening, and keeps me fit, is a bonus.

[-] palordrolap@fedia.io 2 points 4 weeks ago

This sounds like my experience before I burned out. And while I was in the process of burning out, I still would have preferred to work from the office because home was, and is, my safe space. I don't want work intruding there.

This does not mean that I haven't worked from home - I was the on-call tech more than once, nor does it mean that I think WFH is a bad idea. In fact I'm all for it for those who can handle it.

I like the idea of unnecessary layers of manglement sweating because they can't justify their existence through pointless micromanagement.

[-] morphballganon@mtgzone.com 2 points 3 weeks ago

Depends if you're an introvert or an extrovert. As an introvert I only see benefits; no commute, a close bathroom at all times, a kitchen with food, not needing to hear annoying coworkers except during meetings etc. If you're an extrovert then you might enjoy hearing your coworkers all day I guess?

Or if you have a toxic household you need to escape from.

[-] laranis@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 weeks ago

+1 on the bathroom. Few things suck more than having a morning coffee shit at the office, wiping with that ridiculous tissue paper that disintegrates if you get it near water, and then walking around all day with an air of confidence even though you know there is no way you got it all.

Protip for office dwellers: keep a single pack Dude Wipe or similar at the office so you can poop without it being a biological hazard. Just don't forget it. Asking a random coworker to grab one out of your desk is awkward.

[-] ODGreen@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 weeks ago

WFH is awesome.

Can take breaks from work to drop off/pick up kid from school. Saving like 15% of my paycheque that would go to daycare otherwise.

Car insurance is cheaper, because no matter how much I drive I'm not commuting to work so the insurance company counts me as "occasional driver".

I can loudly and violently swear at bullshit emails.

I can listen to my own music on speakers while working.

Minor cons though:

I'm getting weirder due to the lack of minor social interactions that otherwise I'd get on the bus, sidewalk, office, cafe, so on.

Some cabin fever from being in the same space all day. I live in an apartment so I don't have a separate room for my work computer. Turn off work computer, turn on personal computer, and it's the same screens while I sit in the same chair. On the other hand this does motivate me to get outside after work to exercise or do errands.

[-] Arctic_monkey@leminal.space 2 points 4 weeks ago

I need the home-work separation, or both suffer. I constantly get distracted from work with home stuff, and can't be fully present with family at home because I'm thinking about work.

[-] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 2 points 3 weeks ago

Fully remote for years now and never want an on-site job again. I don't mind going for a couple of events a year, though.

I can take my "smoke break" to change loads of laundry or do something else around the house. I have no commute time nor expenses. I am always here for deliveries. I regained so much of my time that I can use for study or entertainment. (Assuming a 1-hour commute, even if most of that is on a train, that's 10 hours a week back from that alone).

For success, your company and you need to have good communication and planning. It's also not for everyone, especially more social people.

[-] HobbitFoot@thelemmy.club 2 points 4 weeks ago

I hate working from home. I find that I can't get into the headspace to work while at home. I find coordination is a pain in the ass and you get to better understand what is going on by physically being there.

It is also frustrating dealing with people who say they are "doing their work" but you find out that they didn't coordinate like they said they would and the two things they designed don't interact with each other.

[-] laranis@lemmy.zip 2 points 3 weeks ago

You know those times at the office where things are slow so you walk the hallway or bullshit with colleagues or make a coffee run or spin in your chair?

You know what I'm doing during those times? Petting my dog. Making a sandwich. Pooping on my own toilet with three ply TP.

Different people like different things, I suppose. I don't miss the commute or the bullshit, but I do miss interacting with colleagues. And I'm pretty sure I haven't been promoted because I don't have enough face time with the bosses. All that to say I am mixed on it.

[-] ClusterBomb@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 4 weeks ago

I love it because I bought everything I need to feel good in my office : a dock to switch easily between work and personal computers, a standup desk, many things to reduce back, neck and shoulder pain too. I have a wall painted that I can look at when I need to have a break. I don't have transport, so I wake up 15mn before work starts. There is no noise. When I feel I can work less without feeling tracked : as long as I get my work done in time, there's no issue. I can take breaks to do some house-related tasks (tho I don't take breaks lately, but I could do it).

I could not go back to any job requiring me to go to the office.

[-] HakunaHafada@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 4 weeks ago

Unquestionably yes. My coffee doesn't taste like shit, and my PJs are far more comfortable than any office attire imaginable.

[-] banshee@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

Yep - I always disliked having to figure out food for the day before heading into the office. I'm not ready to eat breakfast until closer to noon, but once I start eating, I want to snack every hour or two while working.

[-] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 1 points 4 weeks ago

Yes, been 100% WFH since 2015. I do miss the random chats in hallways, lunch room, etc, but definitely not worth going back to an office. I am far more effective at home.

[-] Schlemmy@lemmy.ml 1 points 4 weeks ago

I WFH 2 days a week and commute to three different offices according to where they need me. WFH is for concentration, office time is for collaboration.

[-] Someonelol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 4 weeks ago

Yes WFH was the best thing to ever happen to me. Saves 2 hours of commute time per day, I can focus without overhearing four simultaneous conversations in my immediate area, my dogs are with me, I can do chores around the house when there's downtime. The only downside is there's no access to my lab so I still have to go in once in a while. Now that my job is forcing RTO I'm desperately searching for a new WFH position but they're starting to get a little scarce and often don't contact me back after applying.

[-] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 4 weeks ago

I thought I'd hate working from home, it wasn't too bad. Then they made us hybrid, I thought oh no, worst of both worlds, it wasn't that bad either. I went back to the office full time because I don't have a home office and wanted to reclaim that space.

It's pretty much the same job but teams meetings suck even more than in person meetings, and training new people too, worse.

What I do not like is a commute. I live about one mile from work so don't even have to drive most days, if it was farther the calculation would be different.

My family loved me working from home because I did more of the cooking and housework, it kind of intensifies that inequality I think.

So I think personally I didn't get much benefit from working from home but it was not nearly as bad as I thought it might be, if I had to I would.

[-] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 1 points 4 weeks ago

As others have said, working from home has many benefits

  • no commute
    • save time
    • save money
    • less risk of disease and accident
    • often easier child care options
  • greater control over environment
    • offices are often too hot or cold for some
    • stock own food, drinks, toilet paper, etc
  • better pet access. Cat on lap. Dog walk easier.
  • easier wardrobe
  • several distraction categories removed
    • people walking up to your desk
    • loud meetings

The commute alone is pretty big. If your commute is like an hour, that's changing your salary from like $x / 10 hours to $x / 8 hours. That's a big bump. If your daily pay was $1000, that's like going from $100/hour to $125/hour.

[-] Monument@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 4 weeks ago

I like it. I would not go back.

But I have a nice home office, don’t live alone, and found office culture and colleagues to be disruptive.
I have ADHD. My job tends to be wide but not necessarily deep. A “quick question” can cause me to lose my train of thought, cause me to get disordered while trying to figure what the hell I was doing, get shut down by the frustration, and lose hours in ‘wait mode’ for the next interruption because it took me so long to enter a flow state that I’m fearful I’ll get interrupted again.

Being able to shut my office door, silence notifications, and focus with music playing in the background has been incredible for me.

[-] peopleproblems@lemmy.world 1 points 4 weeks ago

It is lonely and isolating. Especially after my divorce.

Idk. I really don't.

[-] psion1369@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

I was working from home for a couple of years and had a mixed appreciation for it. While I was still driving my wife to her job in the morning, it was nice to come home and start my day. Less gas and all that. But not having coworkers around, and not enough separation from the home space sent me stir-crazy often. My wife had a ride home from work since my schedule went past hers, and I would be trying to go places or something after work and she just wanted to chill after her retail management day. But since I was laid off and had to re-enter retail management myself, I wouldn't mind a hybrid situation if I had the choice.

[-] olafurp@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

I work remotely from a different country so I don't really have a choice but I'd show up to work 1-2 times per week because they offer free food and see the people I've been working with the past 4 years.

That being said, I love the fact I don't have to commute, chats and calls always have a main agenda but we also chat about games, movies etc. occasionally. I can work uninterrupted most of the day

[-] oh_@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Totally love WFH. I can hang out with my dog while working, get laundry done on breaks, and no commute leaves way more free time in my life. I would never go back to working in an office unless I was in dire straights.

[-] tensorpudding@lemmy.world 1 points 4 weeks ago

I'd say not having to commute is a huge benefit of WFH, but it has some pitfalls that can negatively impact your work performance depending on what you do.

[-] KombatWombat@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yes. I have worked at both and I feel much more comfortable at home. It gives you a level of flexibility that is hard to describe. I can start my day early, take a break for an hour, and resume it when I feel I can give it the proper level of attention. When I was in office, there was a pressure to look like you're working all the time. It felt hard to concentrate when the expectation was on dedicating the expected time to work rather than getting something done. With WFH, it's more about getting your tasks done and generally no one cares when you do it. And I can slouch and prop my feet up and have videos/music/audiobooks playing and whatever else I want without anyone knowing, let alone caring. I don't need to worry about a commute, and all my food and comforts are available when I want them. I can easily handle things like being at home for a package delivery or a technician repairing something or walking the dog or just doing laundry.

That being said, I will admit it is considerably harder to get help with a task in office. You can't just have someone pop by to look at something for example. You can still do a call or message, but it's a bigger barrier to overcome. With WFH, collusion for a group more often needs to be scheduled, and you don't have an analogue for water cooler talk.

Many places that offer work from home also have an office somewhere, so I would recommend new employees go in while learning the ropes, then switch as they become more independent. And some people like having different locations to help switch between work and relaxation mentalities. And it can be nice to get out of the house too. But overall, WFH is much better for me.

[-] Nebraska_Huskers@lemmy.world 0 points 3 weeks ago

Is it a specific field you're in or can anyone apply, how do you go about finding a WFH job? I live in a very rural area, I have a job been at it 10 years but I'm ready too move on, there's just nothing else around I want to do. I actually have fiber internet so that's not a problem.

[-] KombatWombat@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

I'm a software developer, so there's a lot of WFH positions at least compared to other fields. But unless you have particularly good connections you would probably need to get a related degree if you wanted a job at most places. I've also heard it's not a good time to be applying unfortunately. You might be able to try for some WFH consulting work related to your current job. Big software companies will hire contractors for temporary work too I guess, but they would probably still want experienced candidates. For me, this was just a position I applied to a few years ago and was lucky enough to get an offer. I don't think there's a secret to it, sorry.

[-] Nebraska_Huskers@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Ok. No i graduated highschool in 96. Farmed for 20 years after, got hurt. Now I'm just a parts manager at a small business. Just bored with it. I want change but at the same time I get off at 5 and am able to be with my family.

The downside is my boss, and pay even though he gives me vacation days, I am hardly ever allowed to use them in the summer time To begining of September . He homeschools his kid because he's a dumbass maga clown. So he thinks it's ok for my kids to miss School in September. if I want to go on a trip for a week. No. Which makes going on a family vacation hard.

[-] KombatWombat@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

That's rough. I hope you are able to find something more flexible.

[-] mrnarwall@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yes. I had a hybrid position pre COVID that was 2/3 days a week home at alternating weeks, due to a lack of available desks in our office building. That was always nice when I worked from home. I enjoyed doing laundry during the day and being able to stop work and immediately get to switch off, as opposed to the days in office where I'd deal with driving home and traffic.

I switched to a fully in office job when Covid hit, and our office when fully remote. Other than training and onboarding, I haven't been required in office since. I love remote work. I won't go back unless I have absolutely no other choice

[-] stoy@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 weeks ago

Nope, I am an IT guy, I live alone in my two room apartment, and I just can't focus on work when I am working at home.

Sometimes I have to, but it sucks

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