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[-] Snowclone@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

No one called her derogatory epitaphs, totally unrealistic. Also more SA threats need to be there and a few death threats.

[-] Drunkpostdisaster@lemm.ee 1 points 5 hours ago

After this election I agree. We are toxic animals that should be killing ourselves.

[-] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 12 points 14 hours ago

I get what the comic is saying but from my experience men dont ssy this because thats the whole problem with mens mental health, tho women do get ignored but not in favor of men just generally. Point is the world is shit, and yes everyones mental health is shit.

[-] PieMePlenty@lemmy.world 70 points 1 day ago

I feel like men do have it tough and when men start talking about it, they get shutdown and told to be a man. Boys dont cry afterall. So some men may feel its unfair when women speak up and are heard. So they want to make it about them. In the comic, just as the men are dismissive of woman problems, she is dismissive of mens problems. Instead of attacking an unfair weath class system, we bicker about shupid shit like men vs women. Its not race, gender or sexuality we should be discussing. Its social, weath classes.

[-] JackbyDev@programming.dev 37 points 23 hours ago

she is dismissive of mens problems.

Not as presented. She's being actively interrupted and trying to stay focused on her original topic.

[-] 5715@feddit.org 2 points 13 hours ago

Did you just call gender-based discrimination a side contradiction?

[-] HowManyNimons@lemmy.world 57 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

The time to talk about men's problems is any time you like, except when a woman has just started talking about women's problems. If you redirect a conversation about women's problems, you're telling the women that you don't care about their problems. If that's the case, fine. Just don't contribute, and let people who want to discuss the women's problems do that. Start another conversation about men's problems elsewhere.

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[-] Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world 10 points 21 hours ago

You still hear "man up" a lot and it's fucked up.

[-] houstoneulers@lemmy.world 67 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Ppl that make these kinds of comics clearly do not socialize with others irl. This only happens online with other trolls, from everywhere on the spectrum of whatever group. But irl, most people are pretty decent.

[-] humblebun@sh.itjust.works 3 points 18 hours ago

Just like me. Here I am a very toxic one, but in the real world I consider myself a nice person

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[-] dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 33 points 1 day ago

The internet is part of real life. Internet trolls are real people behind their screens, and they live somewhere. Maybe they live far away from you and near this artist.

[-] Ohbs@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago

I agree. There is an added layer of depersonalization, but it's still real life, just like driving in traffic. The same people who would be courteous in person could be cutting you off and being freely offensive on the road. The interactions are no less real, maybe even more real than some situations that prescribe some distancing, like a job interview or talking to a coworker, depending on how close you are.

[-] HowManyNimons@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago

If you're a digital artist, your domain is the internet. Your audience is the internet. Your medium is the internet. In that case, you'll write about the internet.

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[-] x4740N@lemm.ee 34 points 1 day ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

I'm just going to speak my mind as a Closeted transwoman who would look like a guy

I didn't honestly want to get involved with this thread at all in fear of creating an absolute mess

But being trans myself I see myself having empathy for both woman's and men's rights because I know and understand the issues men are facing and see the issues woman are facing

I don't like seeing the devide on either side and absolutely hate seeing the division and fighting especially when people advocate for men's rights or woman's rights

I personally advocate for both because I see everyone having rights as part of equality and equity and if you don't want any one group to have rights then that isn't equality or equity

We should be free to talk about both men's rights and woman's rights without being attacked for it

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[-] PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca 26 points 1 day ago

The way this comment section unironically mirrors the comic perfectly.

So many dudes here unironically talking about how men have it hard too 🤦‍♂️

[-] Karakangaroo@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago

It's kinda pathetic lol. How is it so hard for people to understand that maybe the best time to talk about problems affecting you is not when someone else is talking about problems affecting them?

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[-] phoenixz@lemmy.ca 29 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah, but no

There are assholes on both sides, like it or not.

Yes, there are loads of men who don't deserve the name, that put women down, who can only be happy on the back of women. Fuck them

Having said that, I very much remember that video of guys going to a support group for men that committed uicide with feminists waiting for them outside to yell things like "it's good that he killed himself!". Fuck those assholes too.

Can we maybe ALL be nice to EVERYONE?

I'm sorry, but this comic doesn't help. The reality is that both men and women face the same nonsense when they bring up what they have to contend with so how about we don't try to disparage either side? Listen to both sides? You know, the thing we should be always doing?

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this post was submitted on 04 Nov 2024
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