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[-] GreyShuck@feddit.uk 76 points 10 hours ago

Yes, fun idea. No problem with that but... that 'flag' is a sail. They're different things.

[-] Klear@lemmy.world 20 points 8 hours ago

Using a sail to fly your colours is a red flag.

[-] Coasting0942@reddthat.com 25 points 9 hours ago

Sus. Having any issue with a red flag meme. /s

[-] PunkiBas@lemmy.world 9 points 6 hours ago

Immediate red flag in my book

[-] Jake_Farm@sopuli.xyz 6 points 6 hours ago

Not as bad as the ones that call women femoids.

[-] Etterra@lemmy.world 13 points 8 hours ago

Remember, pirates did fly red flags as well as black ones. The red ones meant you were extra fucked.

[-] Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world 7 points 6 hours ago

If you saw a pirate ship with a rainbow flag though , you're in for a mean margarita and a good time.

[-] acockworkorange@mander.xyz 6 points 6 hours ago

I think they’re still after your booty.

[-] eddanja@lemmy.world 5 points 7 hours ago

I think black was like, "We just want your shit and we'll let you live if you surrender" while red was like, "We're gonna kill and then take your shit or take your shit and then kill you, either way you will not survive," kinda thing.

[-] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Sometimes the black one meant they just wanted your hats.

Benjamin Hornigold. No I'm not making that up.

[-] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 9 points 8 hours ago

Someone should really tell everyone from the south. I had no idea until it was pointed out to me by someone younger. Changed my behavior of course, but was simply ignorant before.

[-] Nuke_the_whales@lemmy.world 9 points 6 hours ago

A lot of people use certain words just out of habit, the last thing you need is some SJW jumping down your throat and calling you names cause they don't like your regional dialect. Lots of words I grew up with that were normal or not that bad, and now are considered super offensive. It's not a malicious thing, all you can do is calibrate and learn, but some people get so worked up if you don't use the words they're used to

[-] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 6 hours ago

Why did you refer to it as shoving something down your throat?

[-] OpenStars@piefed.social 4 points 6 hours ago

Otoh, some women use this while referring to other women, e.g. "us females need to stick together!" - in a totally positive and inclusive manner (or what looks like that, from me on the outside - i.e. not using language in such manner myself, for either men or women).

So maybe instead of a red flag it's more like an orange one? VERY noteworthy, but not enough on its own to justify cutting off contact with someone, whereas for an actual red flag you would... right?

[-] Revonult@lemmy.world 16 points 9 hours ago

I been wondering people's opinion of "Female" in some instances. Like is "First Female president/athlete/mayor/lawyer" appropriate? "First woman____" doesn't sound right and you wouldn't say "first man athlete to run 2 hour marathon" you would use male.

Most things can be rephrased maybe, but obviously using Females outside these instances is very right wing cringe.

[-] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 47 points 9 hours ago

"Female" is fine to use as an adjective.

It's also fine to use as a noun when describing livestock, which is why it's a red flag to describe women that way.

[-] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 5 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

What is a good word to use for people who are female of any age including young children that are not old enough to be called women in addition to women?

'Women and girls' is pretty clunky when talking about something that is gender specific, but applies to all ages.

[-] jlh@lemmy.jlh.name 11 points 9 hours ago

boys and men / girls and women sounds right to me

[-] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago

'Gendered violence against teenage women and girls' is really clunky. Especially if it needs repeating across paragraphs.

If there isn't something, that's fine.

[-] savvywolf@pawb.social 10 points 9 hours ago

"Gendered violence against females" on the other hand sounds a bit too clinical though... Like you're removing their personhood

[-] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago

If 'females' wasn't used by online sexists to treat women as objects would it sound that way?

[-] savvywolf@pawb.social 6 points 8 hours ago

Maybe! I don't know if "gendered violence against men" also has the same connotations.

Maybe this is indeed is a case of those people poisoning the term.

[-] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

"Don't forget about gendered violence against boys!" would be a likely response to a statement about men.

It is absolutely a case of a term being poisoned, which does mean it needs to be treated more carefully but sucks when there isn't an alternative.

[-] Klear@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago

Just ask yourself if you'd use "males" in that context.

[-] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 9 points 8 hours ago

I absolutely would use males in that context. "Toxic masculinity has a detrimental affect on males of all ages" sounds perfectly fine to me because I don't know of a different label for the group and males doesn't have the same dehumanizing usage as females.

[-] xtr0n@sh.itjust.works 6 points 9 hours ago

Women is probably fine to use when the ages can be gleaned from context. You can also make the noun non gendered and use female as a adjective like “female students” or “female patients”

[-] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

I'm mainly asking when ages span from birth to old age and the goup would basically be "female persons" or "male persons" which is clunky.

Sometimes it can be rephrased, but it often requires multiple words to mean the same thing. Plus "women of all ages" will be read as not including children.

I'm mostly pissed that sexists ruined the only single word term we have for half of the population.

[-] ted@sh.itjust.works 2 points 8 hours ago

Woman as an adjective is picking up in my circles and podcasts I listen to. Woman scientist, woman entrepreneur. It may have sounded weird initially, but I've gotten over it and I suspect it will develop over time to be completely normal.

I wouldn't really compare it to the male/man counterpart, because men aren't demeaned by being called "male" regularly.

[-] toast@retrolemmy.com 3 points 6 hours ago

Woman used as an adjective like this sounds so wrong to me (probably because it isn't an adjective). If you wouldn't say man voter, man driver, men reporters, etc., then why would you say woman voter, women drivers, woman reporter? Just because some people use 'female' in a way that you object to shouldn't make all uses of it objectionable. Do you want a world in which we can say 'male patients', but have to say 'woman and girl patients' instead of female patients? Why??

[-] Revonult@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

I agree it works in most cases it works fine but like "First woman astronaut" feels weird.

I mostly didn't want to be accidentally participating in something shitty.

Edit: or like "fastest woman athlete"

[-] ted@sh.itjust.works 2 points 7 hours ago

Yeah, I remember feeling like it was weird, but both of those sound absolutely fine to me now.

I also would never balk at "female" as an adjective in those cases, nor assume the speaker was being misogynist.

[-] 4oreman@lemy.lol 8 points 8 hours ago

he'd probably call women maidens

[-] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Except Nichelle Nichols

[-] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 11 points 9 hours ago

Or they are just non-native english speakers

[-] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 10 points 8 hours ago

Yeah, but those people don't get defensive when you comment on it, while those who are raising the red flag immediately do. It's pretty easy to tell them apart from that point forward.

[-] krashmo@lemmy.world 9 points 8 hours ago

What a sweetheart you are. Can't even let a webcomic get away with not being inclusive.

[-] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 3 points 7 hours ago

Pretty sure non natives will be the first ones to use "woman" and not "female". I know it's not something we say in French anyway, a woman is a woman.

[-] BuboScandiacus@mander.xyz 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

a woman is a woman

Problematic part

Blague à part, il existe d'autres langue (non-indo-européennes) ou la distinction est moins aisée à faire. Par exemple en Hongrois on dit "nő" pour "femme" et "nőstény" pour "femelle", mais on peut les interchanger dans certains cas et les traducteurs automatiques s'y emmêlent les pinceaux des fois.

[-] Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 hours ago

Intéressant à savoir!

[-] CarbonIceDragon@pawb.social 5 points 8 hours ago

With an attitude like that, something tells me that pirate won't be getting any booty

[-] DarkCloud@lemmy.world 11 points 10 hours ago
[-] Apepollo11@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

Thank you! This is always the first thing that pops into my head whenever I read somebody using "females" instead of "women"

[-] obscur_e@lemm.ee 6 points 10 hours ago

Lmao good one

[-] homesweethomeMrL@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago
[-] SexualPolytope@lemmy.sdf.org 0 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I'm not sure I like the idea of demonizing people just because of a word. Unless it's something as fucked as the n word, it might just be a matter of dialect. Many non-native English speakers I know use female as a replacement for woman. The intent is the more important thing. Sometimes the most well spoken man can also be sexist.

[-] sneezycat@sopuli.xyz 1 points 6 hours ago

Idk about other languages, but in Spanish "male/female" is reserved for animals*. So it'd be freaking weird to use it in English.

^*it can be used for people but not in 99% of contexts.^

[-] SexualPolytope@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Sure, but there are other languages in the world. In Bangla, for example, we formally use different words for different genders of animals. But people often add the equivalent of boy/girl in front of the animal name to signify its gender. For us, there are no hard rules for the usage of these adjectives/nouns.

this post was submitted on 08 Nov 2024
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