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Not including your butt

I get irritated and say "don't touch my fatty bits" when my partner does it and it makes them laugh so they do it more

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[-] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 10 points 9 hours ago

If you genuinely don't like it, then tell them in a serious way, not in the moment.

[-] MouthyHooker@hexbear.net 5 points 9 hours ago

I do and it doesn’t bother me because I know he thinks it’s cute and I just like being touched. But any time you set a boundary about being touched and your partner disrespects it, that’s a no from me, dawg.

[-] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 22 points 13 hours ago

They do it because they think your reaction is cute lol.

I agree though if you tell them not to they shouldn't.

I dunno, maybe they don't think you mean it?

[-] shreddingitlater@hexbear.net 20 points 13 hours ago

NOO NOT MY FATTY BITS

(I get jokingly irritated, it's fine but I can't let them know that soviet-pout )

[-] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 15 points 13 hours ago

That's adorable, relationship goals fr wholesome

[-] Feinsteins_Ghost@hexbear.net 12 points 13 hours ago

No. I have self image issues.

I think it might be an issue for me if I asked my partner not to and they kept it up. Maybe that’s why I suck at relationships.

[-] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 11 points 13 hours ago

Yeah, but we're married so it's not like I'm holding anything back from her anyway

[-] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 9 points 13 hours ago

One gf doesn't have any meat on her bones to grab anything the other gf told me a while ago that's not her jam. One nesting partner doesn't mind it and knows it's my way of showing affection they pinch my butt and sides every once in a while. The thickest partner loves getting their sides touched and held. We called them "bumpers".

[-] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 7 points 13 hours ago

She calls them chubbly bits, but yes

It's mostly because I am super ticklish

[-] Infamousblt@hexbear.net 6 points 13 hours ago

I let 2 of my partners do it but not the other because they do it weird. Poly life

this post was submitted on 23 Nov 2024
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