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Not including your butt

I get irritated and say "don't touch my fatty bits" when my partner does it and it makes them laugh so they do it more

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[-] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 2 points 14 hours ago

I've only ever dated big girls, and all my exes have loved when I grab their fatty bits. I just think their fatty bits are super cute so I'll caress their tummy while we're snuggling and stuff like that. Fatty bits are beautiful and deserve to be treated as such

[-] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 27 points 4 days ago

They do it because they think your reaction is cute lol.

I agree though if you tell them not to they shouldn't.

I dunno, maybe they don't think you mean it?

[-] shreddingitlater@hexbear.net 25 points 4 days ago

NOO NOT MY FATTY BITS

(I get jokingly irritated, it's fine but I can't let them know that soviet-pout )

[-] Dirt_Owl@hexbear.net 19 points 4 days ago

That's adorable, relationship goals fr wholesome

[-] TrashGoblin@hexbear.net 6 points 3 days ago

Safeword so they know it's not part of the scene.

[-] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 18 points 4 days ago

If you genuinely don't like it, then tell them in a serious way, not in the moment.

[-] MouthyHooker@hexbear.net 15 points 4 days ago

I do and it doesn’t bother me because I know he thinks it’s cute and I just like being touched. But any time you set a boundary about being touched and your partner disrespects it, that’s a no from me, dawg.

[-] Feinsteins_Ghost@hexbear.net 15 points 4 days ago

No. I have self image issues.

I think it might be an issue for me if I asked my partner not to and they kept it up. Maybe that’s why I suck at relationships.

[-] blindbunny@lemmy.ml 14 points 4 days ago

One gf doesn't have any meat on her bones to grab anything the other gf told me a while ago that's not her jam. One nesting partner doesn't mind it and knows it's my way of showing affection they pinch my butt and sides every once in a while. The thickest partner loves getting their sides touched and held. We called them "bumpers".

[-] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 12 points 4 days ago

Yeah, but we're married so it's not like I'm holding anything back from her anyway

[-] Infamousblt@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago

I let 2 of my partners do it but not the other because they do it weird. Poly life

[-] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 9 points 4 days ago

She calls them chubbly bits, but yes

It's mostly because I am super ticklish

this post was submitted on 23 Nov 2024
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