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I am not a guy who used to pay attention to clothing fashion because I felt it was expensive and hard to follow those ever changing trends. But I am seeing lot and lot people keeping up well with trend. I feel like I am falling behind and I need to stay up with the trend too.

So how do I stay up with the clothing trends with not spending too much time on it? How do you stay up to date with it?

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[-] remon@ani.social 7 points 1 month ago

Why would you want to?

[-] novibe@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

If you don’t love fashion, don’t try to “keep up with trends”.

Think of it this way. Fashion can be a hobby. You can spend hours every week researching, studying, searching for clothes. You can participate in message boards or discord groups for it. You can travel just for it.

Like photography. Like working out. Like gardening.

You can still like to take some pictures, and want them to be nice, without making photography your hobby. Same with going to the gym, or keeping some plants in your apartment.

So if fashion is not the hobby for you, don’t worry about it too much. Just learn what is good for you. Don’t care about the trends.

You can dress in any style nowadays tbh.

Just be mindful of getting a good fit on your clothes. Make sure the length of the pants is right, they fit well around the waist etc.

Maybe find a couple of ppl on social media you like the way they dress, and just passively absorb their content while scrolling.

Then go shopping from time to time, when you feel the need for a piece of clothing. Like maybe you need new pants, maybe you need new shoes.

You’ll have an idea of what kind of stuff you like, how you’d like to have your clothes fit etc.

But yeah, you don’t have to make fashion a hobby if you don’t want to. Trends are for kids and fashion autists.

[-] thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 month ago

Fashion trends are part of the owning class making us working class spend more on thetr products, don't fall for its buy things that make you, you, don't fall for the capitalist need to buy things you don't necessarily need. Unless it's dictated by the owning class in your job, nothing you can do about that though.

[-] wingsfortheirsmiles@feddit.uk 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Build your own style and own it, trying to keep up with trends (of any sort) is a recipe for dissatisfaction

[-] SpikesOtherDog@ani.social 2 points 1 month ago

Trends are just emulating someone else's style.

[-] urquell@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago
[-] sigmaklimgrindset@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 month ago

Most of these comments are reddit levels of snarky and unhelpful, wow.

"How do I keep up my style?" Top comment: "I don't, and neither should you."

Great, thanks. Just because someone's hobby isn't tinkering with their Linux-variant for 5 hours a day doesn't mean it's worthless, especially to them. A lot more men are into fashion than Lemmy would have you believe, OP, don't get discouraged!

My advice is that if you have no clue where to start looking at "trends", I always recommend going to see what the big menswear fashion brands are doing in their seasonal collections and seeing if there's any outfits, silhouettes or pieces you're drawn to. Trying to find versions of those at your price point is the easiest way. And if you like things from a few seasons past, even better, because you'll definitely find them at thrift stores and 2nd hand resell sites like Poshmark/Depop/etc for a fraction of the price.

Also look for natural fabrics (cotton, silk, linen), not polyester. Tencel and Lenzing ecovero are good alternatives of you need the elasticity and smoothness certain polyester fabrics have but can't splurge on the higher cotton/silk quality. Polyester tends to trap smells, degrades quickly, and is basically recycled plastic clothing. Best to avoid.

[-] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 month ago

Don't ask homeless folks how to buy a house.
Essentially: Know your audience.

I'd assume >90% of the userbase on Lemmy are not primary on fashion while still dressing according to their requested dressing code or outside for recreational purposes.

[-] spankinspinach@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

+1 for natural fabrics wherever possible. In my experience, they are almost always better for day to day wear, and I live in a COLD climate

[-] Kaiyoto@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Is this is for work, you might want to look up "capsule wardrobe." This gives you wardrobe to mix and match that looks like you have bunch of clothes when you don't. You really don't need to keep up with main stream fashion. Any pressure to do so is just societal pressure and you don't have to align with it.

[-] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I've been wearing the same tshirts and jeans for 30 years. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[-] slazer2au@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Not consecutively? Like they have been washed in those 30 years right mate?

[-] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Of course! It's not like I've never gone swimming before!

[-] JoeKrogan@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I dont. I dont give a shit about it, marketing is designed to manipulate you into buying more shit you dont need.

That being said I still dress well, opting for non branded stuff as I dont want to be a walking advertisement and I would rather spend the money on experiences.

I chose to buy stuff that goes with a lot of things so I can maximize value. Neutral colors that can be combined in a variety or ways. I also look for stuff I could wear for both work and day to day settings.

[-] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

It’s easy, every morning I get up I take a few mins to put on clothes

By up to date on clothing and fashion you mean making sure your clothed every day right?

[-] FourPacketsOfPeanuts@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Using money you haven’t earned to buy things you don’t need to impress people you don’t like..

[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

For dudes, the email newsletter Blackbird Spyplane is very good for fashion.

[-] urheber@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 month ago

Plesse dont, the world is turning ugly. also its super Lame to wear what the others wear.

[-] guaraguaito@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago
[-] DragonsInARoom@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Colour theory is a good thing to learn for clothes because its stays the same over every trend

[-] JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago

This. Or even just tone theory. Don't wear a black top with white shoes, or vice versa.

Personally I don't care a bit for fashion, but I'm often surprised by how many guys seem to have no conception of basic esthetics.

[-] TexasDrunk@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

There are a couple of replies with good advice here. I'm going to add to them. First, remember that you don't have to get everything at one go. It takes time to build style (notice I say that instead of fashion).

Not all body types can get a good fit off the rack, but having your clothes fit is probably the most important thing you can do. It's not expensive to have shirts tailored. I have a long torso and narrow shoulders, so any of my work clothes or going out clothes are purchased a size too large and taken down to this very nice Chinese woman who takes them all in for me. It runs me about $25 per shirt to do it but I get a lot of wear out of them so it's worth it.

Build a capsule wardrobe. A couple of nice plain white T-shirts (I happen to like 3 fit theory because of their range of sizes, but if you can buy off the rack almost any decent T-shirt will work) and a few different colors that you can swap between create a base to build around. Get a couple of dress shirts, one in white (my other go to is blue, but I've really gotten into a pink dress shirt under my sweater for cooler weather). Get some good fitting jeans, charcoal slacks (or a charcoal suit), and some brown, khaki, or olive chinos and have them hemmed. From there you can get casual button up shirts, a cardigan, and a nice sweater. You'll also need casual footwear (I wear skater shoes), dress shoes, and maybe some brown leather boots (I wear Western boots but I don't recommend it unless you are either very comfortable in them or are somewhere that they're common....get some reasonable lace up boots).

Mix and match everything. At this point you'll never look like you're wearing the same outfit twice. You'll look put together and you'll have style. Layer your casual button up over one of the T-shirts. Layer the sweaters over any of your button up shirts. Tuck in if the occasion calls for it. Layer the sweater over a T-shirt.

This advice obviously isn't for everyone, but you'll look good. I get compliments about how put together I always look and honestly I rarely stop to think about what I'm wearing because almost everything in my closet goes with everything else and it all fits. With mixing and matching everything I probably have a ton of ways I can put things together with less than 20 items of clothing, 3 of them being shoes.

On any given day it's easy for me to go from my desk job, to giving a demonstration to executives, to the ranch to ride some horses, then out to any bar in the city. Of course not all of these will apply to you. But if you take your time over the next several months you can get one item on payday and build things up and have something to wear anywhere.

[-] zerozaku@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Thanks for the detailed answer. This is a lot to take in for someone who never paid attention on how I wear my clothes lol. I'll try to break it down and start slowly.

[-] TexasDrunk@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

If you've got any questions you can message me or reply to me here. I'm not a stylist (I'm a software engineer), but I've worked with several.

[-] pip@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 month ago

You really don't have to. Unless you intend to work in the capitalistic work of clothing marketing, there really is no point. Most of the people out there with style or that look good build their own personal style or at the very least take the time to understand what looks good on them, and that has a lot to do with proportions as well. Timeless style works best for a lot of people, especially considering most trends literally circle back around if you give them enough time.

It's harder than ever to follow trends now that there are such things as "microtrends" and everyone's just trying to sell you something constantly. Idk if this is stemming from a social insecurity about your looks, but trust me, people who find their style and rock it authentically look the coolest and will attract the right crowd for them (usually). There's people out there rocking vintage fashion, punk, hipster, academic - and they all look so dang cool

[-] Beacon@fedia.io 1 points 1 month ago

The reason you're getting the replies that you're getting is that the vast vast majority of men don't do clothing in the way that you're asking. Most men don't do "up to date" style, most men do classic styles that always look good. If you want answers to current male fashion trends then you'd have to ask in a forum dedicated to male fashion

[-] anon6789@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

No offense to the other replies, but I don't feel they're answering your question. While the ideal answer is to be yourself and not chasing trends, many people still want to look nice.

I think one of the perks of being male is that there is so much great style that is considered timeless. I'm not very fashionable, but I try to buy things that won't look dated anytime soon.

I found this article that could be of help to you. It looks at 30 men from different decades that show off classic style, and even many of the older ones, if you borrowed aspects of their looks, you would still be stylish today.

30 Icons of Timeless Men's Style: The film stars, musicians, athletes and cultural figures who have left an indelible mark on the world of style

[-] SGGeorwell@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Yes, many of these replies have been unhelpful. Another good piece of advice is to simply buy the fashion magazine at the store and flip through it and look at the photos and kinda take a survey. The magazine will also have article about what’s going to be in style this season and next season. Then there are websites for that same content where they forecast trends and you can go shopping and see the stuff on the shelves. You can either participate in the rat race, or as poster above says, you can buy timeless looking pieces that are less flashy but maybe more dignified.

You can find brands you like and follow them for future inspiration

You can think of men you look up to and see how they dress.

Short answer: GQ, Vogue Men, Esquire

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