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[-] emi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 33 points 1 year ago

Here is a crazy idea, Pay Workers A Livable Wage and price goods accordingly... that is the easiest step forward as I would be tempted to ask for more because profits are unpaid wages.

[-] wholemilk@lemm.ee 27 points 1 year ago

I ordered food from a place with zero human interaction. I ordered from a tablet and picked up my food from the counter after receiving a text. I was still asked to tip. At that point, I didn't even know what I was supposed to be tipping for.

[-] Harold@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago

I used to not tip for takeout (since I had thought there was not really "service"), but I've since learned that the packaging for take away can be rather involved. So, I do tip now for the labor of readying the meals to go

[-] wholemilk@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

That makes sense, I just wish they included those costs in the price rather than making me guess how much I should pay, especially when it's less clear who the receiver of the tips will be.

[-] Wincing5185@mastodon.online 11 points 1 year ago

@wholemilk @Harold exactly! The tips should be the exception not the norm. I tip when the service, the quality or the experience was so good to me that I want reward the ppl o made it possible as complimentarily. An incentive to them keep doing an exceptional job. No job should be dependent of charity. That is subverting how a business should be run. Can't accept it as a rule.

[-] asclepias@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago

How do you know if your tip went to the person who did that labor though?

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[-] HisNoodlyServant@beehaw.org 23 points 1 year ago

I am so tired of it. Pay your god damn employees.

[-] Snapz@beehaw.org 25 points 1 year ago

A solicitation for tip BEFORE any service is rendered is essentially blackmail.

"Hey, not for nothing, but sometimes pancakes can fall on the floor before they get into your to-go bag... I'm just saying... Anyways, here's this tip screen, no pressure [holds eye contact]"

[-] ProfessorZhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 year ago

Said absolutely no service worker ever

[-] Lols@lemm.ee 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

from the netherlands where this nonsense is starting to take root, i refuse to pay more than it said on the bill

i do not order or buy from places that dont include taxes in the price tag and report them whenever i come across them, i refuse to order from places that dont include the deposit on cans and bottles in the price tag, and i refuse to to tip people for just doing their job

ill tip if i messed something up, but i dont see any reason why i should pay someone extra for doing what their job requires them to do, especially since theyre at worst making the same minimum wage i am

[-] z2k_@lemmy.nz 7 points 1 year ago

Same in NZ. We have a high minimum wage and already pay pretty high prices for everything.

Some Eftpos/Credit card terminals will even ask if you want to tip when you make a payment. Such an awkward moment pressing “No” right in front of the person serving you.

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[-] Spitfire@pawb.social 19 points 1 year ago

Tipping is absolutely everywhere and it feels like a lot of these screens default to 20% or more. And the employees usually give you a look if you change it to below that or no tip at all.

A sit-down restaurant I understand for your server, but I still disagree with it and feel that they should just be paid a normal wage, not dependent on the tips. But I'm not going to tip for takeout 9/10 times.

Also how do we even know, as customers, if the tip is actually going to the employees?

[-] LimitedBrain@beehaw.org 15 points 1 year ago

No no, don't feel bad about hitting that 0% button. I feel like this is a PSA but in the USA if you tip a minimum wage (untipped) employee, THEY WILL NOT GET YOUR TIP. Severs get paid on tips and a minimum wage (tipped) of about $2.50. Tipping a normal employee (on screens, not cash) will just mean that the employer has to pay them less wages. Seriously? Yes seriously. You can tip at subway, the only person getting that money is subway.

[-] CarnivorousCouch@beehaw.org 8 points 1 year ago

Strictly speaking, this isn't true throughout the entire US. Wait staff in Washington, for example, get paid the full state minimum wage, and the minimum wage act explicitly requires that tips be paid to employees rather than retained by the restaurant. Of course, actual practice or compliance can differ, but there are a few states with better laws than the norm.

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[-] Swallowtail@beehaw.org 9 points 1 year ago

I never tip with takeout. The only way to stop the cancer of tipping from spreading is to refuse to buy in to it. Pay your damn employees a living wage and then they don't need tips!

[-] TimTheEnchanter@beehaw.org 14 points 1 year ago

Related, but has anyone else noticed the “default” tip amounts (on registers and such) are higher now, too? In the past I would see 15-18-20% as kind of the standard options, and now I don’t seem to see anything lower than 20% on those preset options. I saw one the other day that had 35% as a default option.

[-] Killer_Tree@beehaw.org 6 points 1 year ago

Yeah, it's ridiculous, but that's why other -> 0% is always a valid option. I'll tip if I'm paying after eating a meal or if someone delivered some food to me, otherwise miss me with that shit.

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[-] Drusas@kbin.social 13 points 1 year ago

If you can't afford to pay your employees a decent wage, you should raise your prices or you shouldn't be in business.

There are a few places here in Seattle which have eliminated tipping, raised prices, and raised wages. I greatly prefer this, personally speaking. Add no, I'm not going to start tipping every random cashier just because they start prompting me to.

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[-] ProfessorZhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 year ago

I didn't expect one of the things to carry over from reddit is the rabid anti tipping culture andbunch of people making up shit to justify their preferences.

I now have a job that gets tips, if someone doesn't tip IDC, the overall tips are good and I don't know the story of the person not tipping. When I give a funny look is when someone hits the no tip button and looks up at me like they're waiting for some kind of response.

I don't have time to care about your financial state, you all are just making up shit in your heads to justify shit to yourselves

[-] noodle@feddit.uk 31 points 1 year ago

Tipping isn't prevalent here so your comment seems strange to me. I'd never tip unless service was above and beyond. The reason why is that I feel companies use tips to depress wages, and tipping culture puts pressure on customers and not the company.

I don't see why you're angry at people who choose not to give you money in a system that allows them to choose, when the system is clearly the issue.

[-] ProfessorZhu@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm sorry, I misunderstood who I was responding to. I don't get how to see the parent comments on this service.

I don't care if someone tips or not. If you provide top tier service regardless of the tip amount, then the tips you get at the end of the pay period are quite good.

I'm upset and tired of the near conspiratorial tone and constant complaining about tipping. Would it be better if wages were better? Yes, but they are not, tip or don't, that's fine. Some people may get upset if someone doesn't tip but I find it really unlikely that servers will even remember who you are by the end of the night much less hold or grudge or try and mess with anyone's order over you not giving a couple bucks or so.

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[-] Dankenstein@beehaw.org 13 points 1 year ago

Tipped wages are disgusting.

Every business should pay their employees stable wages.

I have no problem with putting some extra cash down for the waiter that looks no older than me and is working at the roadhouse down the village back road for minimum wage.

If a fuckin Pret a Manger opened up in center Philly and defaults to 30% tips, wtf man, wtf.

[-] Wincing5185@mastodon.online 5 points 1 year ago

@Dankenstein @RotaryKeyboard as an European, US tips things is just ridiculous. Seriouly can't understand that shit. Why don't you pay your ppl for the work they do?

[-] themadcodger@kbin.social 9 points 1 year ago

With so many things in this country, the origins are racism. While tipping originated in Europe, it became popular in the States post-slavery as a way to not have to actually pay black people. Haven't shaken it yet.

And annoyingly, the ones who often push the hardest to keep tipping culture are the servers themselves as they can take home a lot of money on a busy weekend evening. Hopefully, we're getting closer to getting rid of it though.

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[-] LootGoblin42@beehaw.org 12 points 1 year ago

I ordered some stuff to get delivered from Walmart, and they wanted me to tip the delivery driver! Fuck that! I'm not going to tip for that. Pay the drivers a living wage! If they don't get tips and don't get paid enough, then these companies just wont have drivers anymore.

[-] scartol@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

Yes because capitalists are known for running out of service-sector workers due to low wages. Also learning from labor shortages.

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[-] themadcodger@kbin.social 12 points 1 year ago

I hate the tipping culture, and wish it would go away. But I'll still do it for sit down service as that's part of the deal. The ones that really get me are for pickup as well as the fastish food services where you go to the counter to order, prepay, you pick it up from the counter and bus your own tables. What exactly am I tipping for?

And why do taxis need tips? Or hairdressers?

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[-] ed2417@beehaw.org 10 points 1 year ago

I was ordering a pizza online for pickup. When it prompted for a tip at checkout I canceled the order. This is the worst case scenario in my book.

[-] freeman@lemmy.pub 6 points 1 year ago

I just hit 0.

When someone said something to me, I stopped picking up pizza from there….

I’ll tip and quite well (usually 25-30%) for full service stuff. But for buffet style/sandwich lines and takeout. No thanks

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[-] BurningnnTree@lemmy.one 9 points 1 year ago

I made an online order for a restaurant a while ago, and there was a tip option with a message that said "100% of tips go toward supporting the restaurant." First of all that's a super vague statement, and secondly, that's not what tips are for. Tips are for supporting the specific people who serve me, not for supporting the restaurant as a whole. Why would I want to leave a tip when I don't even know where the money is going.

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[-] ABluManOnLemmy@feddit.nl 9 points 1 year ago

I'm glad to have moved from a country where taxes and (high) expected tips are on top of the price, to a country where tax is included in the price and tips are usually not expected. It makes a surprising difference in affordability when you can actually buy a €5 item with €5.

As soon as companies started asking for tips at self check-out, it became obvious that it's just a way of trying to underpay their staff and shift that responsibility on the customer.

[-] latte@beehaw.org 9 points 1 year ago

my favorite thing is places that have a 20% gratuity automatically added to every bill to compensate employees fairly (i am begrudgingly accepting of this even though it should really just be on the menu price) but then have an extra line for tip on top of that. and sometimes that extra tip line calculates a tip for you based off of the already added 20% gratuity. insane.

[-] FarceMultiplier@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 year ago

I would not object to a law banning establishments from requesting tips before service has been provided.

[-] invno1@lemmy.one 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

They shouldn't request tips at all. Tips only should be provided if a customer feels like the service was above and beyond normal.

[-] Jo@readit.buzz 5 points 1 year ago

That's not true in the US. They have a tipped minimum wage; there, if you're not tipping you're stealing someone's labour.

It is a sucky system, as the buried lede in that article shows:

However, data from the very checkout system that prompted tipping revealed disparities in pay. Neitzel noticed that Black employees were earning less tips than their White counterparts.

But, until it is burned to the ground, that is the system and (in the US) you should not use it to exploit people.

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[-] grizzzlay@beehaw.org 8 points 1 year ago

I appreciate the sentiment from most folks here that this culture is ridiculous and that we should not take part. I’ve been told the more effective way to eliminate tipping culture is to vote in elections and it was so astoundingly tone deaf. Another reason why I like it here!

[-] TheTrueLinuxDev@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago

Yeah, I actually stop going out for any restaurant or outing ever since the tip inflation went out of control. I just rather spend the money on a cooking class and cook things myself. I really encourage everyone else to do the same, you save a lot of money, and you can add whatever creativity you want to the meal.

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[-] briongloid@aussie.zone 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I was browsing a retail website and when they automatically added a +10% tip on the advertised price I noped out immediately.

[-] Rentlar@beehaw.org 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

(Canada). Sit down table service, delivery and taxi I tip standard % pretax, everywhere else, will be only after if I really enjoyed the experience and not more than $5. Also I tip less if their sign has a price less than what I actually get billed (it's happened several occasions). I try to pay tips only in cash so that they actually go to the waitstaff and not to the creditcard company or the manager.

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