100% agree. A youtuber once summed up the setting pretty perfectly imho. They said something to the effect of
"Fallout isn't just a post-apocalypse. It's an example of retro futurism. Specifically, it's the year 2077, as the people of the 1990's imagined the people of the 1950's imagined it. But then, that society got nuked, and the post-apocalypse imagined by the pop-culture of the 80's and 90's rose from it's ashes."
3's more standard "post-apocalypse vibes" don't really nail the vision of the original Fallout. This is especially a negative if you are coming at Fallout from the standpoint of a long time fan. Like I said in my first rant,
"New Vegas has richer world-building, themes more aligned with Fallout 1 and 2, and a more realistic sense of a society rebuilding after centuries"
And yeah, it seems pretty obvious that 3 was meant to be set much earlier in the timeline originally. With Rivet City being the most advanced "from the ground up" society in terms of agriculture simply by having a small hydroponics lab, most of society surviving by scavenging, attempts to cleanup and rebuild at an extremely early or nonexistent stage, etc.
Though I assume that for folks who prefer 3, these are not hills they particularly care about, and that the more generic post-apocalyptic vibes (that were really in vogue when 3 was released) hit the exact fantasy they wanted to play through.
But yeah, I wholeheartedly agree with your points.
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