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He was a bronze Torb main

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The game is Makyouden: https://youtu.be/qnP6ronQAcs

I haven't played it yet but it looks interesting.

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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/28018658

Qt 6.9 is here! This release brings exciting innovations, enhanced graphics performance, and new platform capabilities to help you build exceptional applications.

Highlighted improvements in Qt 6.9 include:

  • Qt Graphs: Interactive 2D panning, zooming, and dynamic 3D graph injection. Printing support now available!
  • Qt Quick: GPU-accelerated SVG animations and Variable Rate Shading for improved graphics performance.
  • Qt Quick Controls: New context menu support enhances desktop integration and user experience.
  • XR Enhancements: Haptic feedback added for creating richter immersive virtual interactions.
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Nairobi – At one of the police stations in Kenya’s capital, Nairobi, families are seated on an old wooden bench, awaiting their turn with the officer on duty. Some of them are holding fading photographs of their lost sisters and daughters. They look tired and sad, with some holding back their tears. This is a familiar scene in Kenya, where a woman is killed every two days by a husband, a relative, or a stranger, and justice is but a distant dream.

According to Femicide Count Kenya, 160 women were murdered in 2024.In the month of January 2024 alone,39 cases were reported, which meant an average of one woman was killed every day. However, human rights groups believe that the number could be much higher, as many death cases go unreported or misclassified.

For Irene Wanja, these figures are not just statistics. They are a painful reality. Her 25-year-old daughter Jane was killed under mysterious circumstances, and her body dumped in a river. Jane was full of life, her chocolate complexion, funny smile, goofy at times, and dreamt of becoming a nurse. Now, her future has been reduced to a police file collecting dust.

She was murdered in cold blood. I have never been able to recover,” Wanja says, gripping a worn out picture of her daughter. “No arrests have been made. How many more mothers have to mourn their daughters before something changes?

Kenya has existing laws meant to protect women. The sexual offenses and the Protection Against Domestic Violence Act, but the implementation is weak. The lack of forensics resources, underfunded gender-based violence units and corruption play a huge role.

Beatrice Njeri, a lawyer who represents victims’ families, has seen it all. “Sometimes suspects walk free because of ‘insufficient evidence,’” she says. “The police don’t prioritise these cases. They tell grieving families to be patient, but justice delayed is justice denied.”

In most cases victims’ families face another hurdle, notably the cost of legal representation. They cannot afford lawyers, and public prosecutors often juggle too many cases to focus on individual victims.

Survivors of gender-based violence are frequently pressured into silence, either by family members who fear societal backlash by abusers who threaten them to keep silent.

With the legal system failing them, Kenyan women are turning to grassroots organizations for protection. One such refuge is run by Wangu Kanja, a survivor of sexual and physical violence. Her foundation offers emergency shelter, and counseling to survivors.

The shelter is hidden in a quiet Nairobi neighborhood, its location, a secret for the safety of the women it protects. Inside, bunk beds line the walls, offering temporary refuge to those who have nowhere else to go. Volunteers work tirelessly, providing food, medical aid, and emotional support.

We receive distress calls every day,” Kanja says. “But we don’t have enough resources to help everyone. Women at risk should have a government funded safe haven, but that doesn’t exist in Kenya.” Some women, she adds, have no choice but to return to their abusers.

Compared to it neighbors, Kenya has the highest rate of femicide cases in the region at 160 deaths in 2024. In 2023, Uganda reported 127 femicide cases, while Tanzania recorded 102.

Human rights groups caution that the lower numbers in these countries do not necessarily indicate better safety for women.

In Uganda, many cases go unreported, especially in rural areas where community-based resolution often discourages legal action. In Tanzania, cultural norms sometimes lead to murders being labeled as "domestic disputes" rather than crimes, further skewing the statistics.

In Uganda and Tanzania, community-based dispute resolution still plays a role,” says Njeri. “In Kenya, victims often rely solely on the police, who don’t always act.”. In Nairobi’s informal settlements, domestic violence rates are particularly high, with limited access to resources for survivors.

For Wanja, justice is an arrest. “I want to see my daughter’s killer behind bars,” she says.

For Njeri, it’s about reform. “We need forensic labs, specialized gender-based violence courts, and police training.”

For Kanja, it’s about safety. “Justice means no woman has to live in fear.”

Yet, for many Kenyan women, justice remains a distant hope.

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A red button. Image says: 'Would you press the button?' [results of pressing the button:] there exists a pill that makes your disability a LOT less debilitating BUT it's near-impossible to get because the non-disabled enjoy taking the pill for fun and the government doesn't want them to.

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Qt 6.9 released (www.qt.io)
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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/28018658

Qt 6.9 is here! This release brings exciting innovations, enhanced graphics performance, and new platform capabilities to help you build exceptional applications.

Highlighted improvements in Qt 6.9 include:

  • Qt Graphs: Interactive 2D panning, zooming, and dynamic 3D graph injection. Printing support now available!
  • Qt Quick: GPU-accelerated SVG animations and Variable Rate Shading for improved graphics performance.
  • Qt Quick Controls: New context menu support enhances desktop integration and user experience.
  • XR Enhancements: Haptic feedback added for creating richter immersive virtual interactions.
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People's Party of Canada will not attend, commission says

The Green Party will participate in two federal leaders' debates this month after meeting the minimum requirements to attend, organizers said Tuesday.

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Artist: Philtomato | twitter | danbooru

Full quality: .jpg 1 MB (2237 × 2756)

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Artist: Iwauchi Tomoki | fediverse | pixiv | twitter | danbooru

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Em encontro ministerial em Paris, Haddad prevê 'quadro mais claro amanhã' sobre medidas de Trump.

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Picture all the most charming and likable people you know. Think about their style, their personalities, and their strengths. Got them firmly in mind? OK, now I am going to ask you a question: What do they have in common?

I’m going to bet the answer is often, “Not much.”

I personally know magnetic introverts, charismatic talkers, strivers who impress with their acumen and ambition, and free spirits who dazzle with their artistic quirkiness. Top actors, CEOs, politicians, founders are all incredibly diverse. Arnold Schwarzenegger is undeniably charming, but so is Keanu Reeves.

Which puts the lie to a lot of formulaic advice on “how to be more likable.” Clearly, there isn’t a single trait or style that makes someone charming. But a pair of interesting new studies suggest there may be one thing that all the most magnetic people have in common: self-confidence.

The first of these studies comes from a pair of Canadian researchers and was recently published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology. The title of the paper kind of gives away its conclusion: “Like Yourself, and Others Will Follow.”

The researchers gave a standard test to evaluate self-esteem to two groups of around 300 participants. They then arranged for one group to participate in a speed dating event and another to attend friendly get-to-know-you sessions. Afterward, all the participants rated how much they liked the people they were paired with.

What did they discover? Here’s how the British Psychological Society Research Digest blog sums up the findings: “When people accurately perceived the personality of someone with low self-esteem, whether in a romantic or platonic setting, they liked them less.”

That might sound harsh to the great many people who struggle with their self-esteem. It certainly won’t help anyone relax to know that, if people correctly spot your struggles, you’re going to be less likely to get a date, meet a friend, or close a sale. Just knowing that science confirms low self-esteem makes you less likable doesn’t suggest anything practical you can do about it.
A second study suggests a workaround

But another study out of Columbia University and Northwestern’s Kellogg School of Management, recently published in the same journal, does. This research didn’t look at just whether low self-esteem makes you less charming, but sought to identify why and what to do about it.

The question behind the research was simple: When people worry they are low status, how does their behavior change? And how does that consequently affect their status? But the methods the team used to explore this question were creative and complex.

The psychologists designed no fewer than 16 separate studies evaluating a range of situations where people’s status anxiety might affect their behavior, from speeches on the reality show Survivor (surprisingly, this is not the first time psychologists have examined the show) to business pitches in front of more or less skeptical audiences.

The same pattern showed up again and again. When people are more worried about whether they are liked and respected, they are less likely to share credit or graciously acknowledge the help or contributions of others. Others spotted their stinginess and as a result their status sank further.

The team calls this “the vicious cycle of status insecurity.” The day-to-day takeaway for entrepreneurs is crystal clear.

A Columbia research brief sums up the lesson of the study according to one of its co-authors, Adam Galinsky: “Failing to share credit or admit receiving help doesn’t make you look like a lone genius; it makes you look selfish and insecure. Attempts to claim credit for yourself, and to treat collaborations like competitions, mostly backfire, further reducing your status.” The simple secret to being more likable

Put these two studies together and what do you get? A pretty clear picture of how people handicap their chances of being liked. Others notice when you don’t like and trust yourself, and they like you less as a result. The opposite is also true. Introverted, arty Keanu shares almost nothing with sunny muscleman Arnie. Except both seem confident being themselves.

That’s a harsh truth for those without such natural ease. Unshakeable self-worth is a whole lot of reflection (or therapy) away for a lot of us. But that doesn’t mean this insight is useless until you conquer social anxiety and self-doubt. There is something you can do to instantly improve your chances of coming across as confident in yourself and therefore more magnetic to others: share credit and lavish on the praise.

The more willing you are to pick other people up and acknowledge those who have helped you, the more people see you as comfortable and self-confident. And the more people believe you like yourself, the more they will like you.

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