It's not much, but it's home. : whitepeopletwitter

[-] golden_zealot@lemmy.ml 12 points 9 hours ago

This is one of the reasons I hate and ignore all advertising. Commercials have NO IDEA who they are marketing to anymore. All I can think about when any commercial or advert plays is how fucking out of touch the company is to be showing the product getting used in a 26000 sq foot house EVERY TIME. I don't have a garage, I don't have a lawn, I don't have a basement, I dont have a house, I don't have a dog, I don't have kids because none of this shit is sustainable or affordable. What world are you marketing to you board rooms upon board rooms of assholes?

[-] FordBeeblebrox@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

How many Mercedes and Audis are actually sold vs the ridiculous amount of commercials they run? It really feels like people in this country are living in two different realities

[-] jenny_ball@lemmy.world 13 points 14 hours ago

seriously. or they'll have some 25yo running the CIA or something.

[-] exasperation@lemm.ee 15 points 14 hours ago

I'm not even sure who can afford just the Lego Set of Fallingwater.

[-] TheRealKuni@midwest.social 4 points 14 hours ago

What about the Atom Brick set? (3/4-Lego-scale bricks).

[-] fossilesque@mander.xyz 10 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

LPT from a local: Skip this tourist trap and just go to Ohiopyle down the road for natural rock slides. It is, perhaps, my favourite park.

[-] PhobosAnomaly@feddit.uk 109 points 21 hours ago

I'm not sure about elsewhere in the world, but daytime TV in the UK is full of programmes where people want to move house to somewhere a little nicer or chilled - whether it's to escape the rat race, bring up kids outside of a city, to retire, whatever. They have the strangest "contestants" though, like (and I'm pulling these from my arse but I doubt they're far from the truth) meeting Tarquin, 44, a part time artist; and Helena, 49, who volunteers at the local farmers market.

"Their budget is 1.2 million pounds"

what the actual fuck

[-] conditional_soup@lemm.ee 12 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Yeah, same thing with House Hunters in the US. Those made really good memes. "Stacy, 23, who is a professional whistler, and her husband, Joe, 25, a part time stick weigher, are looking for a more relaxed pace and a smaller, cozier home. Their budget is 7 million, and they're looking for no less than 3,000 sq meters"

[-] pimento64@sopuli.xyz 18 points 15 hours ago

The fake jobs are euphemisms for having a trust fund.

[-] notabot@lemm.ee 5 points 15 hours ago

That, or having bought their first property long enough ago, and in the right place, that it's appreciated massively more than the place in the country that they've got their eye on. The property ladder is, possibly was, a thing.

[-] Thrashy@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago

Still is, at least to an extent. Bought a house 10 years ago for $110k, and while I’ve paid down about $30k of that between my modest down payment and 10 years of mortgage payments, the house has appreciated ~2x, meaning that I could potentially bring a $100k down payment to a new property. Even with everything else appreciating in the meantime, that makes viable many more options than I would have had if those mortgage payments had been rent checks.

[-] 9point6@lemmy.world 55 points 21 hours ago

My (half serious) conclusion is the contestants like you describe are either the no-I'm-not-wealthy class of idiots that have simply come from money and don't realise that's not the norm, or they're drug dealers that found a skilled accountant.

[-] TranscendentalEmpire@lemm.ee 44 points 20 hours ago

Yeap, same thing with "find my dream house" shows in America. I think the major difference is that instead of the people being in their 40s, it's usually people in their 20's. The source of the funding is ultimately the same, rich parents. The likely difference is between trust fund kids in the US and just people whose parents have finally taken their much awaited dirt naps in the UK.

I think rich parents are basically a prerequisite to owning a home for anyone under 40 nowadays. I'm one of the only people in my friend group of people in their late 30s who owns a home, and that was due to what I consider a minor miracle.

I was lucky and bought an abandoned house from the bank for 30k after the last recession, and that was only possible because I got a loan I probably shouldn't have qualified for through USAA. So, still a bit of nepotism, but because my dad was in the service, not because he was wealthy.

[-] peregrin5@lemm.ee 33 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

Yeah that's the House Hunters trope. It's in the US too on HGTV.

Lisa is a 25 year old retired yoga instructor and Drew is a 28 year old brick layer who does crack in the alley behind his apartment. They are looking to upgrade into a home in the suburbs because Lisa is expecting any day now! Their budget is 3.5 million. Can they find a home?

[-] baguettefish@discuss.tchncs.de 20 points 19 hours ago

oh no, they have a bunch of requirements and accidentally spent double their budget on the house but are still just fine somehow

[-] ExtantHuman@lemm.ee 11 points 18 hours ago

Every single episode of those shows features a couple that has already purchased a house, and they pretend to give them two other choices to "pick" between.

[-] VindictiveJudge@lemmy.world 5 points 15 hours ago

Especially noticeable when they find a fake option that's a better fit for their wants/needs than the one they actually chose and the same price or cheaper.

[-] anomnom@sh.itjust.works 1 points 12 hours ago

It’s absurd, but then again; The post above this one in my feed was how the “starter home” price in 200 different us cities is now $1 million.

[-] thorhop@sopuli.xyz 9 points 14 hours ago

It's all that tip money.

[-] FelixCress@lemmy.world 73 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

This is winding me right up. You see people in movies and you think straight away - there is no way you would be able to afford this house/car.

The same goes with them living without any noticeable employment for months. Or having a job but spending their working hours doing something else.

[-] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 55 points 21 hours ago

Hollywood has done irreparable damage to society’s expectation of reality.

[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 30 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

And it doesn't even stop at the financial stuff where someone has an incentive to screw with society's expectations. All kinds of other aspects like friendships, relationships, parenting,... are strange in movies too.

[-] cRazi_man@lemm.ee 8 points 15 hours ago

There's was a video essay on YouTube about there being less and less sex on TV and in movies and how bad that is. They argued that media should portray all aspects of life realistically; and if sex is left only to porn then it's going to give people a more and more skewed view with no counterbalance.

[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 11 points 15 hours ago

That is a good point but they should also just include more awkwardness and in general more of the effort required to keep relationships (of all kinds) working, even the successful ones. That whole "find your soulmate and then coast" nonsense has done a lot of damage to relationships to take just one example.

[-] cRazi_man@lemm.ee 3 points 14 hours ago

Agree completely. None of it is well portrayed and the movies that do it well are exceptions. Any movie in which I see a man and woman having alcohol, I know there's a sex scene coming up. Romance and sex are both so horrendously badly portrayed most of the time that I'm surprised more people don't complain.

James Bond - typically misogynistic and women are used as Bond pleases.

1st Iron Man movie - serious investigative reporter is reduced to a hot piece of ass for a one night stand as Tony Stark clearly just picks up and sleeps with whoever he wishes.

Star Trek Into Darkness - Kirk is so alpha that the easiest way to portray this is he is in bed with 2 alien women and doesn't even care as they beg him not to answer the phone and get back to action with them.

[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 2 points 13 hours ago

Honestly, I think it would already an improvement if the distinction was a bit clearer between wish fulfillment fantasy and supposedly realistic portrayal of relationships.

I don't mind so much if men and women want fiction with their respective wish fulfillment but don't pretend that it is realistic.

[-] archonet@lemy.lol 37 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

It's the system working exactly as designed. "you, too, could have all this if you only worked hard enough. Now that you've spent 2-3 hours of your weekend off at the movies, get back to work, slave"

[-] shalafi@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago

Nah, it's nothing so subtly evil. People go to movies to get taken out of their day-to-day lives. No one wants to see the protagonists struggle with the same issues they struggle with. Struggle is fine, just don't want to see my struggle.

[-] NJSpradlin@lemmy.world 9 points 19 hours ago

Exactly, and everything is product placement. WTF would Ford want a beater from the 80s being the car in the film? They’ll lobby for the coolest, brandnewest model even when it doesn’t make sense. Or their product placement models will be every other car on the road. I see you Transformers.

[-] Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee 2 points 12 hours ago

The Iron Man movies were chronic for this, Audi really made them significantly worse.

The single worst example was I Robot.

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[-] But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world 15 points 20 hours ago

People in movies and tv rarely have messy houses, they’re always spotless, and everyone pops in on each other and everyone is at home wearing pants.

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[-] shalafi@lemmy.world 3 points 15 hours ago

Same in fiction about modern people. Used to always wonder, "How the fuck does this guy just not work while all this shit is going down?!" People flying all over the country, dropping out of work, paying anything that needs paid, all on a middle-class job.

[-] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 5 points 18 hours ago

See: FRIENDS

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[-] fireweed@lemmy.world 10 points 15 hours ago

I don't mind unrealistic housing as long as it's not directly referenced. Nothing worse than a character inviting someone into their home saying something like "sorry it's so cramped" and then the shot reveals a living room large enough to fit my entire apartment.

[-] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 42 points 21 hours ago

Is that a Frank Lloyd Wright?

[-] rem26_art@fedia.io 46 points 21 hours ago

Yup, thats Fallingwater in Pennsylvania. Its a museum now and you can take tours of it

[-] squirrel@lemmy.blahaj.zone 35 points 21 hours ago

Despite subsequent repairs to the parapet, the cracks there periodically reappeared. Fallingwater's problems were so numerous that Edgar Sr. referred to it as "Rising Mildew".

This part never fails to amuse me.

[-] drosophila@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

I think his general style was really good, how his buildings could look futuristic and naturalistic at the same time, but FLW kinda didn't give a shit about structural integrity or insulation.

[-] rem26_art@fedia.io 14 points 20 hours ago

lmao yeah thats great. Cantilever structures are interesting to look at, but boy would I not want to be in charge of maintenance on that

[-] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 10 points 20 hours ago

Rising Mildew

This was my first thought upon processing wtf was happening in the pic. I mean, sure, that's neat. But also a nightmare.

[-] Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee 8 points 20 hours ago

The interior is also very cramped for such a large structure. The surrounding land is gorgeous though.

[-] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 9 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

The designer was fond of liminal space. He likes narrow hallways and sudden openings to big rooms. Personally, I was surprised by how low the ceiling is in most of the rooms. From the pictures, it looks taller and more imposing than it is IRL.

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[-] GluWu@lemm.ee 4 points 15 hours ago

I remember going as a kid and they didn't allow kids in. That's the only thing I remember about that trip. But it wasn't for us, my parents really like frank lloyd wright

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[-] klemptor@startrek.website 11 points 18 hours ago

Yup, I believe it's Fallingwater

[-] Sibshops@lemm.ee 17 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

I'm always sort of happy when I see realistic apartment situations. Like how Ruby Sunday on Dr. Who lives with her foster family as an adult.

[-] But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world 19 points 20 hours ago

Sopranos have a tidy house but they have a maid, when tony lives on his own, his house is littered with dirty laundry, cereal bowls, pizza boxes and tony isn’t wearing pants. I appreciated the realism of that show

[-] callouscomic@lemm.ee 10 points 21 hours ago

I find most video games and other media far more unrealistic in that nobody ever needs to go to the bathroom.

[-] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 12 points 21 hours ago

Sounds like you don't play Ark: Survival Evolved.

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