960
top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[-] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 10 points 41 minutes ago

Well of course they live there; that's one of Frank Lloyd Wright's worst designs. They're not going to live in one of his masterpieces, are they?

[-] Syd@lemm.ee 1 points 30 minutes ago

Is that really a Frank Lloyd?

[-] espentan@lemmy.world 5 points 19 minutes ago
[-] HelixDab2@lemm.ee 1 points 8 minutes ago

To be honest, i don't know specifically, but that's very much in his prairie school of architecture.

If you ever get a chance, try walking around in Oak Park (a nice suburb of Chicago on the far west side); a lot of Wright's earlier architectural work is there. One of his earliest buildings is there, from before he developed his prairie school, and it's... A real change of pace.

[-] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 3 points 21 minutes ago

Sean William Scott in Role Models - his job is to dress up as an energy drink mascot, but he lives on the canals at Venice Beach and has ordinary neighbours who he sees and talks to.

[-] Phoenicianpirate@lemm.ee 8 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

When I was a kid growing up in the Middle East in the 80s and 90s I idolized the hollywood/US TV western lifestyle. They all seemed so effortlessly lavish and nice. All sitcom/domcom families had large homes and all the kids had their own rooms and those kids didn't need an allowance. They could get jobs like waitresses or paperboys that earned a half decent pay that allowed them to afford whatever the hell they wanted. I lived in Dubai they forbade all child labor. Even if those laws were ignored in some circumstances, they were generally quite strictly enforced. So unless you were a debt-slave camel jockey kid, you were not going to work at any job.

I legit thought that that was the reality of many people. Even young adult slackers with chronic unemployment issues still somehow had small houses bigger than any apartment I knew. Of course this was myth, and ever since the 2000s rolled along with nearly 40+ years of stagnant wages AND rising costs of everything else meant that that idea is dead.

[-] Formfiller@lemmy.world 18 points 8 hours ago

This is one of the reasons nobody likes movies anymore. Hollywood is so disconnected from the struggle of the working class it’s just sad. The Oscar’s have become a joke

[-] Awesomo85@sh.itjust.works 6 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

You got me thinking over here.

Perhaps it's a two way street, and both sides have changed.

It used to be that people wanted to suspend their beliefs for an hour and a half and live in a fantasy. I feel like most people look more for reality and relatability in cinema these days, but Hollywood is still trying to provide the escape.

It's just not lining up.

[-] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 8 points 8 hours ago

Malcom in the middle had a realistic home.

[-] Ilovethebomb@lemm.ee 4 points 32 minutes ago

Which they only had because multiple people were murdered in the house, and Lois didn't tell the family.

[-] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 9 points 7 hours ago

Having a home in general isn't exactly realistic anymore

[-] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 9 points 7 hours ago

Things really have changed.

Rosanne was about a poor, blue-collar family struggling to get by that had a house with a detached garage and 4 bedrooms.

[-] SSNs4evr@leminal.space 4 points 8 hours ago

Or grandma, the widowed, retired elementary school teacher, whose deceased husband owned a neighborhood flower shop.

[-] Jyek@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 hours ago

That's not unreasonable. Starting a small business is manageable with business loans which you can get from a bank with nothing more than a well written business plan. If the flower shop makes more than the business spends on rent, labor and supplies any normal schmoe can have a neighborhood flower shop.

[-] golden_zealot@lemmy.ml 34 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

This is one of the reasons I hate and ignore all advertising. Commercials have NO IDEA who they are marketing to anymore. All I can think about when any commercial or advert plays is how fucking out of touch the company is to be showing the product getting used in a 26000 sq foot house EVERY TIME. I don't have a garage, I don't have a lawn, I don't have a basement, I dont have a house, I don't have a dog, I don't have kids because none of this shit is sustainable or affordable. What world are you marketing to you board rooms upon board rooms of assholes?

If a vacuum cleaner company wants to correctly advertise a vacuum to the masses, they would now have to have the commercial show a lonely man getting off of the night shift of his 3rd job, taking a bus back to his squalor closet of an apartment, and then passing out gazing at the vacuum which has been sitting unused in the corner of the bedroom for 8 months, because the only world where he has the time and energy to use it is in his fucking dreams.

[-] Arseniste@sh.itjust.works 5 points 6 hours ago

I don’t think Hollywood and advertising are out of touch, they know what they’re doing. They’re not just selling products, they’re selling an ideal. It’s about shaping how people see the world. For working-class viewers, it feels fake because it’s their reality being distorted. But for middle and upper-class audiences, it subtly shifts their perception, makes working-class life look manageable, maybe even confortable. They know it’s not 100% accurate, but they don’t realize how far off it is. That’s the real effect: it makes things look better than they are, and pushes people further out of touch without them realizing it.

[-] lud@lemm.ee 6 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

And funnily enough ads are way way more targeted now than any other time in history.

Apart from the obvious privacy concerns i actually prefer non targeted ads, because they are less effective.

[-] SupremeDonut@lemmy.ml 2 points 7 hours ago

But of course, you're auto-opted into personalized ads and the majority of users couldn't be bothered to figure out how to opt out

[-] FordBeeblebrox@lemmy.world 7 points 21 hours ago

How many Mercedes and Audis are actually sold vs the ridiculous amount of commercials they run? It really feels like people in this country are living in two different realities

[-] PuddleOfKittens@sh.itjust.works 1 points 21 minutes ago

To be fair, the important part about buying a Mercedes isn't that you know what a Mercedes is, it's that others know what a Mercedes is before you drive past them.

[-] driving_crooner@lemmy.eco.br 6 points 8 hours ago

They're not for people looking to bought a car but for people that already bought one. To reinforce that they took the correct decision and that the next one they bought should be another of the same brand

[-] PhobosAnomaly@feddit.uk 123 points 1 day ago

I'm not sure about elsewhere in the world, but daytime TV in the UK is full of programmes where people want to move house to somewhere a little nicer or chilled - whether it's to escape the rat race, bring up kids outside of a city, to retire, whatever. They have the strangest "contestants" though, like (and I'm pulling these from my arse but I doubt they're far from the truth) meeting Tarquin, 44, a part time artist; and Helena, 49, who volunteers at the local farmers market.

"Their budget is 1.2 million pounds"

what the actual fuck

[-] conditional_soup@lemm.ee 20 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah, same thing with House Hunters in the US. Those made really good memes. "Stacy, 23, who is a professional whistler, and her husband, Joe, 25, a part time stick weigher, are looking for a more relaxed pace and a smaller, cozier home. Their budget is 7 million, and they're looking for no less than 3,000 sq meters"

[-] frezik@midwest.social 8 points 7 hours ago

Those are good shows to hate watch in a hotel when you don't have anything else to do.

Except for this one time. It was an African American family where a single working mom had to use the dinner table to get work done after hours, her mom lived with them and had to sleep in the same bed as the younger daughter, and the teenage boy had outgrown the length of his bed.

I can't make fun of that. This family needs a new house.

Next episode had a white family. Their biggest problems were that the kids didn't each have their own bathroom, and they didn't live close enough to the golf course. Now that's more like it.

[-] pimento64@sopuli.xyz 25 points 1 day ago

The fake jobs are euphemisms for having a trust fund.

load more comments (3 replies)
[-] 9point6@lemmy.world 62 points 1 day ago

My (half serious) conclusion is the contestants like you describe are either the no-I'm-not-wealthy class of idiots that have simply come from money and don't realise that's not the norm, or they're drug dealers that found a skilled accountant.

[-] TranscendentalEmpire@lemm.ee 49 points 1 day ago

Yeap, same thing with "find my dream house" shows in America. I think the major difference is that instead of the people being in their 40s, it's usually people in their 20's. The source of the funding is ultimately the same, rich parents. The likely difference is between trust fund kids in the US and just people whose parents have finally taken their much awaited dirt naps in the UK.

I think rich parents are basically a prerequisite to owning a home for anyone under 40 nowadays. I'm one of the only people in my friend group of people in their late 30s who owns a home, and that was due to what I consider a minor miracle.

I was lucky and bought an abandoned house from the bank for 30k after the last recession, and that was only possible because I got a loan I probably shouldn't have qualified for through USAA. So, still a bit of nepotism, but because my dad was in the service, not because he was wealthy.

[-] peregrin5@lemm.ee 41 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Yeah that's the House Hunters trope. It's in the US too on HGTV.

Lisa is a 25 year old retired yoga instructor and Drew is a 28 year old brick layer who does crack in the alley behind his apartment. They are looking to upgrade into a home in the suburbs because Lisa is expecting any day now! Their budget is 3.5 million. Can they find a home?

[-] baguettefish@discuss.tchncs.de 26 points 1 day ago

oh no, they have a bunch of requirements and accidentally spent double their budget on the house but are still just fine somehow

[-] ExtantHuman@lemm.ee 16 points 1 day ago

Every single episode of those shows features a couple that has already purchased a house, and they pretend to give them two other choices to "pick" between.

load more comments (2 replies)
load more comments (1 replies)
[-] exasperation@lemm.ee 19 points 1 day ago
[-] TheRealKuni@midwest.social 7 points 1 day ago

What about the Atom Brick set? (3/4-Lego-scale bricks).

[-] FelixCress@lemmy.world 80 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

This is winding me right up. You see people in movies and you think straight away - there is no way you would be able to afford this house/car.

The same goes with them living without any noticeable employment for months. Or having a job but spending their working hours doing something else.

[-] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 60 points 1 day ago

Hollywood has done irreparable damage to society’s expectation of reality.

[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 33 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

And it doesn't even stop at the financial stuff where someone has an incentive to screw with society's expectations. All kinds of other aspects like friendships, relationships, parenting,... are strange in movies too.

[-] cRazi_man@lemm.ee 9 points 1 day ago

There's was a video essay on YouTube about there being less and less sex on TV and in movies and how bad that is. They argued that media should portray all aspects of life realistically; and if sex is left only to porn then it's going to give people a more and more skewed view with no counterbalance.

[-] taladar@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 day ago

That is a good point but they should also just include more awkwardness and in general more of the effort required to keep relationships (of all kinds) working, even the successful ones. That whole "find your soulmate and then coast" nonsense has done a lot of damage to relationships to take just one example.

load more comments (2 replies)
[-] archonet@lemy.lol 39 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

It's the system working exactly as designed. "you, too, could have all this if you only worked hard enough. Now that you've spent 2-3 hours of your weekend off at the movies, get back to work, slave"

load more comments (5 replies)
load more comments (10 replies)
[-] jenny_ball@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago

seriously. or they'll have some 25yo running the CIA or something.

[-] fossilesque@mander.xyz 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

LPT from a local: Skip this tourist trap and just go to Ohiopyle down the road for natural rock slides. It is, perhaps, my favourite park.

[-] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 43 points 1 day ago

Is that a Frank Lloyd Wright?

[-] rem26_art@fedia.io 47 points 1 day ago

Yup, thats Fallingwater in Pennsylvania. Its a museum now and you can take tours of it

[-] squirrel@lemmy.blahaj.zone 35 points 1 day ago

Despite subsequent repairs to the parapet, the cracks there periodically reappeared. Fallingwater's problems were so numerous that Edgar Sr. referred to it as "Rising Mildew".

This part never fails to amuse me.

load more comments (6 replies)
load more comments (2 replies)
load more comments (1 replies)
[-] thorhop@sopuli.xyz 9 points 1 day ago

It's all that tip money.

[-] fireweed@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

I don't mind unrealistic housing as long as it's not directly referenced. Nothing worse than a character inviting someone into their home saying something like "sorry it's so cramped" and then the shot reveals a living room large enough to fit my entire apartment.

load more comments
view more: next ›
this post was submitted on 01 May 2025
960 points (99.4% liked)

People Twitter

6889 readers
903 users here now

People tweeting stuff. We allow tweets from anyone.

RULES:

  1. Mark NSFW content.
  2. No doxxing people.
  3. Must be a pic of the tweet or similar. No direct links to the tweet.
  4. No bullying or international politcs
  5. Be excellent to each other.
  6. Provide an archived link to the tweet (or similar) being shown if it's a major figure or a politician.

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS