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Hard work (sh.itjust.works)
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[-] TheGrandNagus@lemmy.world 18 points 1 month ago

Look, if I were in a privileged position in life, you can bet I'd also do whatever I could to make the same true for my daughters. 100%. I care for them and want them to be prosperous, and if they have kids I'd like them to be in a good position too.

But what really fucks me off is when these people who've benefitted from that then go on to act like they're self-made and didn't get the help.

Just own it. Say "yeah, my family runs a businesses, and because of that I'm in this good position. I'm really thankful of my parents for doing that for me, I've been really fortunate, and I work hard every day in order to show my appreciation for the opportunities that have been made available to me."

I'd respect the hell out of that, even though there's still the degree of nepotism there.

[-] SorryQuick@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 month ago

Honestly you don’t need your family to be rich. A family well-off enough to give you:

  • Good financial education
  • Doesn’t kick you out at 18 or require rent
  • Pays your tuition (maybe not in the US)
  • Supporting in your endeavors
  • Family loans (not having to pay interest is massive)

Makes a HUGE difference.

[-] Surp@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I'm sorry but that is called rich these days.

[-] Digit@lemmy.wtf 1 points 1 month ago

Yep. Like merc@sh.itjust.works said at the end of their reply:

I guarantee that most of the kids that come from rich families have no idea what it’s like not to be rich. As a result, they don’t ever consider that it might not be normal to be able to have your dad’s lawyer look over the contracts for your new company free of charge. They never think of how easy they had it to find investors for their company, and how forgiving those investors were. It never occurred to them that during those lean months at the beginning when their company hadn’t yet started generating real revenue, that it was unusual to be able to live in their parents’ spare apartment in the city, and to have dad pay off their credit card.

[-] SparroHawc@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

That's...
That's literally middle class...

[-] Surp@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago
[-] SparroHawc@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 month ago

Okay, fair.

[-] merc@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 month ago

The reason they don't admit that they got a head start is that they actually don't believe it.

The daughter of a family friend of mine grew up middle class. Her mom was a social worker, her did had an office job. She managed to marry a man who's the son that's inheriting his dad's oil business, worth tens of millions. She is now a housewife / stay at home mom. She now has a city home, a cottage (which is fully a house, just in a more rural location) and a summer home. One of her daughters competes in sailing races (and anybody who knows sailing knows just how expensive that hobby can be), the other is into horse riding.

I've asked her what it's like for her kids to grow up rich, and she doesn't get it. She doesn't think she's rich. She says that there are houses around where she lives that are even bigger than hers, and that her husband works hard. I'm sure that's true, but she's still in the top 0.1%. And this is someone who grew up middle class, and should remember what it was like.

I guarantee that most of the kids that come from rich families have no idea what it's like not to be rich. As a result, they don't ever consider that it might not be normal to be able to have your dad's lawyer look over the contracts for your new company free of charge. They never think of how easy they had it to find investors for their company, and how forgiving those investors were. It never occurred to them that during those lean months at the beginning when their company hadn't yet started generating real revenue, that it was unusual to be able to live in their parents' spare apartment in the city, and to have dad pay off their credit card.

[-] faintwhenfree@lemmus.org 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I feel i came from a middle class but relatively well do family, dad had enough so we never had to skip meals or skip new clothes every year.

But I also got luckyt young in my age (from age 12 to 17). I regularly interacted with people who were poor, underprivileged and ubdereducated.

I saw parents giving their 1 year old some hash just to stop them from crying, I mean what chance that kid has to ever be sober.

I saw a grown man who aas extremely happy when I gave away my 3 year old t shirt that i thought i got so bored with.

I saw daily labour markets where I've seen grown man cry because they didn't get picked for that day and he doesn't know how he is going to be feeding his family tonight.

I saw how being poor was a trap, I remember I saw this day laborer buy 10ml of oil, 200g of rice, 100g of beans at exorbitant markups (50-70% compared to if he bought standard 1kg packs) . And I was like this man is stupid for not buying bulk and my dad explained, he has to go hungry for a week before he can save up enough to buy bulk and he'd much rather not go hungry.

Anyway my point being, I am always aware lucky and privileged I am. all parents should make good faith effort to show their kids how people below them in wheel of luck live, and not as a cautionary tale like an exhibit. But put them in situations where they can see the actual good people behind the poor, underprivileged and ubdereducated label. Otherwise kids only know their lifestyle and think that's normal.

[-] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 2 points 1 month ago

My family ran a business...into the ground, because my father could not sit still, and went off to do whatever work.

Claims he is perfectly healthy, is outraged when I mention ADHD.

[-] Digit@lemmy.wtf 2 points 1 month ago

ADHD can be perfectly healthy.

It just takes some skill to ride that wild bull.

[-] raman_klogius@ani.social 7 points 1 month ago

no shortcuts

Yeah because they spawns 1m from the finish line.

[-] ideonek@piefed.social 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It must be a satire or rage bait at the very least.

[-] db2@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

No, most nepo babies are really that out of touch with reality. Remember "if you're homeless just buy a house".

[-] Peehole@piefed.social 2 points 1 month ago

This kind of satire is a new way to farm engagement on LinkedIn, it’s not even remotely funny after the 100th post like this, but LinkedIn is the worst of all social media so it’s kinda on brand.

[-] ideonek@piefed.social 0 points 1 month ago
[-] db2@lemmy.world 0 points 1 month ago

Yeah, and? In order to satire a thing there must be the thing or it makes no sense, right?

[-] ideonek@piefed.social 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Well. Maybe. Too a degree for sure. The conviction need to exists. But this is also a tribal "they vs us" where its not important what they acctualy are. Even if they exists, this misrepresents them and the scale thr issue.

How often did you insult the "just buy a home" girl and wonder how she could be so dumb and out of thougch? Well she wasnt. She don't exists. Even if nepo babies do.

Also:

[-] NotSteve_@piefed.ca 3 points 1 month ago

What's the un-edited version? I want to see how they try to describe how '"hard they worked"

[-] GalacticSushi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It's satire. It's a bunch of typical LinkedIn nonsense (run every morning, read, do yoga, etc) then the bait and switch at the end is that their dad just gave them a multi-six-figure position at an investment firm he runs.

Not sure why they blacked out so much of the post, the original is funny enough.

[-] Doctorbllk@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 month ago

It has been posted elsewhere recently unredacted and 90% of the comments could not understand that it was satire.

[-] Infrapink@thebrainbin.org 2 points 1 month ago

Here's the original

I became Senior VP at a multi-million dollar company at age 26. My salary was $600k. This was in 2018.

How did I do it?

It wasn’t hustle culture. No 5:30am wakeups, cold showers, or productivity hacks.

What got me there was a relentless focus on impact. Every project I touched, every deck I built, every presentation I gave MOVED THE NEEDLE.

Always, I asked myself: what is the single most valuable contribution I can make to the company right now? And I did that. If people disagreed, I convinced them otherwise.

I kept this up for three years before the CEO (my dad) finally recognized my results and promoted me to SVP.

There are no gimmicks. There are no shortcuts.

[-] selokichtli@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 month ago

Jesus. It's almost exactly as I imagined it.

[-] Digit@lemmy.wtf 2 points 1 month ago

If people disagreed, I convinced them otherwise.

Because being wrong didn't matter. Daddy had their back.

[-] Digit@lemmy.wtf 2 points 1 month ago

Gotta admire the cojones of those bootstraps.

[-] BurnedDonutHole@ani.social 1 points 1 month ago

What I would never understand is how these nepotism babies thinking they achieved something by themselves.

[-] treptilien@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

He's so inspiring (his dad)

[-] AlexLost@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Stupid. Just have rich parents.

[-] radio@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

Nepo babies when they take the bus: THERE IS NO BUS.

[-] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago

Nepo baby’s: There is no spoon

[-] blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago
[-] lostoncalantha@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

Hey there are no shortcuts buddy.

[-] blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago

Spoken like a true nepo

[-] MrSulu@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

Never underestimate how tough it is to have such pressure to be the child of a multi-millionaire and their limited life options.

[-] Digit@lemmy.wtf 1 points 1 month ago

Poe's Law prevents me fathoming if that's said in earnest.

[-] MrSulu@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 month ago

Ah, it's my British sarcasm mocking the post

[-] Digit@lemmy.wtf 1 points 1 month ago

👍

My British autism and too long time spent online among non-Brits causing me to consider it could have been meant non-sarcastically. Those people are out there.

[-] gegil@sopuli.xyz 0 points 1 month ago

Is linkedin a shitposting site for people in it?

[-] funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 month ago

yes. Every now and then a boss o' mine will make me post to LinkedIn about the company I'm currently working for - so I will write a David Foster Wallace style essay (previous ones include comparing business process automation platforms to different fictional orcs, or what my old mad Scottish housemate making pasta taught me about b2b sales...) until they stop asking.

[-] ecvanalog@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

You should collect them all and get an illustrator. Make a little 50 page ebook. I’d buy it.

[-] polariscap@lemmy.cafe 1 points 1 month ago

I would too 😆

[-] rockettaco37@feddit.nu -2 points 1 month ago

Fuckin' capitalism, eh?

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