[-] hyattpotter 1 points 2 years ago

but you DID have one drink!

[-] hyattpotter 1 points 2 years ago

I can't with the good mornings and the good nights either. I consider that part of small talk and I just can't stand empty chatter for the sake of it. I'd much rather be sent a funny meme that reminded them of me tbh.

In my previous long term, I noticed that I could go about two days without needing to check in with them, and when he does come over, we don't really chatter much about our day to day either; just enjoy existing in the same space together, doing separate things.

I used to compare with other couples and wonder if we actually enjoy each other's company.

Your current situation sounds extremely promising though! I do think that comparison is a thief of joy. You don't need to always have fun activities and constantly engage each other to be "loving" me thinks. If you're happy, you're happy. Don't let other people (including yourself) think otherwise!

[-] hyattpotter 1 points 2 years ago

you seem alright the other day.. xD

[-] hyattpotter 1 points 2 years ago

I guess my age is very telling; I forgot you can't do much with MYR100 these days :/

On point 4 though, at what point is it too pre-mature to discuss or manage expectations? Like how detailed or how vague should we be? :/

[-] hyattpotter 1 points 2 years ago

Yeah haha

Don't you think it's romantic? Assuming we're reading the same book.

Actually probably not my taste in books are quite juvenile >.>

[-] hyattpotter 1 points 2 years ago

guess it's a threesome now hahaha

[-] hyattpotter 1 points 2 years ago

Where do you usually go? Like are we legit doing a major grocery run here? Also I don't cook so all my food very unhealthy heheheheh

[-] hyattpotter 1 points 2 years ago

Hmm you still haven't answered my question tho. What are you seeking out of this relationship, emotionally ~~and physically~~?

[-] hyattpotter 1 points 2 years ago

get outta here buddy

[-] hyattpotter 1 points 2 years ago

or they feel the conversation is boring but don’t contribute either

guilty as charged >.<

[-] hyattpotter 1 points 2 years ago

BRO ME TOO I get a lot of XIAO DIDIS WHAT IS UP WITH THAT

[-] hyattpotter 1 points 2 years ago

I was learning to be a bassist, I am not great at all. Certainly can't play like you guys do!

I'll just be content being a groupie for now hahaha.

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