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[-] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 20 points 2 months ago

I know a guy that's doing at least once a week, probably more, commute from DC to New York City. To be a product guy at a like 5 person company. As if you really need to be in a shared office to move jira tickets, ask eng again "How's that feature coming?", and so on. The CEO is a crazy person.

The CEO is also making the front end developer guy who lives in Connecticut come into the office 2-3 times a week. So he can work on his web page, the one with the code stored on github.

I hate all this "return to office" stuff. I don't care about management's feelings or real estate investments, and I don't care about people who hate their family and can't focus at home. Making people commute is a pay cut and a blow against labor.

[-] Olgratin_Magmatoe@slrpnk.net 11 points 2 months ago

My department just got called in for an RTO with zero warning, with 3 days in person for a ~160 person department.

There are ~20 desks available. Do the math.

This next week is going to be a disaster for their coked up idea of good business practices.

[-] Mistakes@sopuli.xyz 8 points 2 months ago

Please update us if you can, that sounds like a delicious level of schadenfreude.

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[-] semisimian@startrek.website 19 points 2 months ago

Marchetti intended the constant to be 1 hour round trip, so a half-hour commute one-way. It's an important distinction, since here in Atlanta the exurban commuter is clocking in at 1.5 hours or more into the city, well outside of what is considered tolerable. Multiply that by a million and you get some irritated people.

[-] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 months ago

Is housing that expensive in Atlanta?

[-] spongebue@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Its traffic is notoriously bad, so you don't have to live far away to deal with a long commute.

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[-] AngryRobot@lemmy.world 16 points 2 months ago

I have diabetic retinopathy and about 10 years ago, I saw enough blind spots that I stopped driving. My company accommodated me by letting me work from home. We already had another employee who was doing that for vision issues, it was simple to do.

Because we were successful, they replaced our desktops with laptops at refresh time and started letting everyone work from home 1 day a week. Then when Covid hit, they just told everyone to bring their laptops home and WFH full time. The CEO talked about return-to-office for a year or two but decided to make it optional.

It's an amazing benefit. It gave me back about 90 minutes every day, and my dog doesn't have to be crated during the day. I can sleep later and have access to my own kitchen for lunch. Theres a reason that average tenure in my department is around 20 years.

[-] TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 months ago

Anything beyond 45 minutes is a schlep and there better be something good for me losing an hour and a half or more of day in transit. Especially a car where I can't even read or relax.

[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 months ago

Especially a car where I can't even read or relax.

I don't commute anymore, but spent close to 20 years with an hour commute each way. Audio books are the only way I can tolerate traffic.

[-] RaivoKulli@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 months ago

I have that right now, 45-55 (depending on the traffic) to work by car. It's a pain but I can't really pick the worksite myself. Could change companies though but many have the same issue

[-] Bunbury@feddit.nl 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I’ve in my entire life never had this short a commute. All the following is one-way commute: 45 minutes to school growing up. 2,5 hours to university 5 days a week for years. 1,5-2 hours to work since. Since the pandemic only 2 days a week though, which is a relief.

Sure it would be nice if it were shorter, but using public transport helps. At least I get to relax, play a game, knit, etc. And not living in a polluted city and having a yard makes it worthwhile.

[-] iglou@programming.dev 7 points 2 months ago

2.5 hours is wild. You spent 5 hours a day commuting?

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[-] daq@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 2 months ago
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[-] vaionko@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 months ago

Why haven't you moved closer? When I started university, I could've had a 1,5 hour commute by car but I moved closer and now it's 5 min by bike

[-] Bunbury@feddit.nl 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

During university the only financially viable way would have been student housing. There wasn’t any that would have taken in me, my husband and our cat.

And since then see above: it’s nice to not live in the busy air pollution of the city and be able to afford a house with a yard. Best thing possible within 30 minutes of work within our budget would have been a small apartment with roommates.

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[-] HikingVet@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 months ago

There are people at a place I worked that did a 2 hour trip each way each day.

[-] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

That's me.

I work in a very small city entirely surrounded by a much larger one. The one I work for is an enclave for the 0.1%. The average new home build here is over 10 times the price that of the major city that surrounds us, which is also very expensive for the region.

Suffice to say, I can't live here. I live in a shitty trailer that's about 2 hours away with traffic, but costs $700 a month as opposed to $3000+ for a tiny 1-room apartment near work.

The commute sucks, but I save $115 every day I commute.

Fortunately, I like audio books.

[-] sanguinepar@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Do you work in the Vatican?

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[-] CatDogL0ver@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

And productivty drops for most people after 6 hours of working.

[-] halloween_spookster@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

When I interviewed at a company some years ago, the commute would have been ~an hour on a normal day (potentially longer if I did park-n-ride). I was very forward about wanting to only come into the office once or maybe twice a week. The manager I was talking with brushed off my commute time by basically saying that the commute wasn't that long and he knew others that commuted much longer. That was a huge red flag for me and I did not proceed with them. I don't care what others will tolerate. If management is going to ignore concerns like that, I don't want to work there. It was really apparent that he wouldn't let me work from home more than maybe once a week if I was lucky.

[-] HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 months ago

So don't hire humans. Isn't that how the original Planet of the Apes started?

[-] danhab99@programming.dev 4 points 2 months ago

A 1hr commute represents 16% of your day, how much of my day should be wasted commuting

[-] axEl7fB5@lemmy.cafe 3 points 2 months ago
[-] bizzle@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Two hours (round trip) divided by 24 (in a day) works out to .0833, ~8%. I can't get 16 I'm not sure where that's coming from.

[-] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago
[-] bizzle@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

16 waking hours works out to ~12% which is closer but not quite

[-] madcaesar@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

My limit is 30 min, anything more than that is a fucking road trip, not a commute.

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[-] HexesofVexes@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I do wonder if the limit varies between personally operated transport (walking, bike, car) and public transport (bus, tram, train).

A 1 hour bus journey is much more relaxing than a 1 hour drive.

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[-] dogslayeggs@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

Then his law has failed.

There are plenty of successful housing areas much farther out than 30 minutes one way (the 1 hour is daily). Nearly everyone I know has a longer commute than that.

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[-] queermunist@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 months ago

Guess my hour+ ebike commute is doomed to fail then.

[-] Neverclear@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 months ago

No, just your house fails. You continue to commute, but you return to vacant land each night.

[-] AlligatorBlizzard@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 months ago

Good luck. I enjoy doing that several times a month on my ebike but five times a week isn't my jam. I'm moving in a few months and my 10 minute commute is going to 45+ minutes... I'm probably going to look for something closer (or wfh) rather than try to do that in January. Helps that my boss's boss is an asshole and I'm not paid that well.

[-] MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 2 months ago

They should make this a literal law for car commutes. Waste of gas, waste of human sanity, and a bane of CO2 emissions.

I would almost go so far as to call commuting further a mark of a class traitor, but also, to make it worth it, you should be making enough to put you in the top 10% of earners anyways ... I guess I'll specify, you should be netting that much after gas and taxes, and if not, let me ask you: Why, just why do that to yourself?

[-] sundray@lemmus.org 3 points 2 months ago

Maybe that would work in sane countries, but in the USA people lost their shit when someone merely suggested cities should be walkable.

[-] MachineFab812@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 months ago

Some people lost their shit, and the media made them out to be the majority. Individual states and counties still have more power and influence than you might think.

Not that I'm not eyeing my escape routes to a saner country anyways.

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[-] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

I assume because they can't find work closer to them, and can't afford to move / have something holding them where they are at that time. No one's doing it because they want too

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[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

laugh-cries in 4 hour commute to a job only 50 miles away

Fuck the Altamonte, man... Where's our fucking high-speed train?

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 2 points 2 months ago

Bro sell drugs instead wtf

[-] Kolanaki@pawb.social 3 points 2 months ago

In order to sell drugs, one must be able to buy drugs. I don't even know where I could buy cocaine, let alone afford more than a few lines for myself. 😭

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[-] abbadon420@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 months ago

I do an hour and a half single trip. It's only twice per week and it's by train. So I read a book or I bring my steamdeck. I really don't mind it. I'd be less happy if it was 5 days per week. I'd still be going by train, but also looking for a better job.

[-] frank@sopuli.xyz 2 points 2 months ago

I wonder how this looks for people with flexible commuting methods. I can bike to work (45 mins each way) or take the train with some walking (40 mins), or take the metro to the train with very little walking (50 mins). The fact that it's sometimes exercise helps break it up, and I don't much mind it

[-] NateNate60@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Imagine having a choice for how you get to your destination

(this comment made by the American gang)

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[-] BoxOfFeet@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

My dad commuted 2.5 hours each way my entire childhood. All through the 90's. It wasn't until DSL got to my parent's area in the 2010s and I was out of college that he could work a hybrid schedule. I couldn't do it. I work 30min away, hybrid 2/5 of the time. It's still more time than I want to soend in the car.

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