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[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 21 points 1 week ago

Tipping is a holdover from slavery. It’s a way to control service workers.

This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t tip people who rely on tips, it means the system is fucking broken by design.

[-] ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 week ago

Tips are a big reason I stopped going out. Everybody wants one.

Every single time I see a fucking Square cash register… One of these motherfuckers:

Every single time I see that piece of shit, I know I’m about to hear the “it’s just going to ask you a few questions” line. And those “few questions” will be asking me to tip 25 goddamned percent on something that I’ve never tipped for before.

[-] Hawk@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 1 week ago

Restaurant tries to scam customers, yet they still give a 20% tip?

[-] bus_factor@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago

Pretty sure the waitress wasn't the one who fucked with the register. Probably the restaurant trying to ensure they don't have to pay the difference if the tips come up short and leave the staff below minimum wage.

[-] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago

I feels like reasoning like this is why it would never end.

[-] bus_factor@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Shafting the waitress is not going to end it either. Most people wouldn't notice this, so they'd still keep doing it if you didn't tip.

The play here is to tip the waitress in cash if possible and slam the establishment on every review site.

[-] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago

If the worker or anyone else not gonna unionise or protest the government for a better minimum wages, then the culture gonna continue. Slammin and jammin the establishment will do absolutely nothing, as with all non-disruptive protest.

I swear tipping is fetishized by american.

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[-] Agent641@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

No because I live in Australia where the govt forces restaurants to Pay their staff in full rather than outsource their wages to the customers directly.

Edit: Pay, not Pauly.

[-] Tja@programming.dev 2 points 1 week ago

Pauly must be busy.

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[-] MIDItheKID@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago

This may be anecdotal, but I ran into this exact same issue a few weeks ago. The suggested 20% was significantly higher than the 20% on the bill. It took me a little bit to figure out, but we were at the restaurant for a steak special and happy hour. The 20% tip was for the non-special price. For example, the steak and two sides special was $18, but the normal price was $28. The drinks were $5 but the normal price was $8. So the suggested tip was 20% of $36, not 20% of $23. These aren't the exact numbers, and there were two of us, but you get the idea. The POS/Tip suggestion is setup so the servers don't get the shit end of the stick when the restaurant is doing a deal/special. I'm not sure I fully agree with it, and I have my own beef with tipping culture in general, but I'm just looking to explain what might be seen in OP's photo.

[-] Mister_Ruse@aussie.zone 8 points 1 week ago

It's not hard to include a disclaimer tip prices based on full price if that's the case to avoid looking bad.

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[-] camelbeard@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago

Wait so you get scammed but still give 20% tips? This would be an automatic 0% tip

[-] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yeah, what's likely happening here is that the tip numbers were calculated off the subtotal intentionally. So say you buy a "happy hour" drink and it is $3 instead of $6, they tip is calculated before the "discount".

Their machine could have actually been wrong, but using a total before discounts seems more likely.

[-] mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

On the surface, I can understand this. It’s not the server’s fault that they got the happy hour rush when everything is 50% off. If anything, they had to work harder because it was busier. Why punish them for that extra work with lower tip calculations? The drinks aren’t any easier or faster to pour just because they’re half off. It should at least be transparent, but I at least understand the reasoning.

What does bug me is when the tip calculations are based on the after-tax total. Fuck that, I’m already getting taxed 10% on this, you don’t need your 18% calculated from that extra 10%.

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[-] jerakor@startrek.website 6 points 1 week ago

You think the wait staff setup the machine to do math wrong?

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[-] kinther@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

I went to a restaurant recently with my wife for our anniversary. Had great reviews on Google Maps above 4.5 stars. Yes I know this should not be the only indicator of a good experience, but the food sounded good and it was in a neighborhood we don't often go to. Something new.

When we got the bill, the server came to us and skipped past the food prices to the tip screen immediately. That should have been my red flag to stop and ask why she did that, but I didn't. I tipped 20%, then later found out that they already included that in the bill. So I tipped 20% on top of the total that already included 20%. Needless to say I won't be going back.

[-] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 9 points 1 week ago

Do a review on Google maps, and TripAdvisor, if you are in a touristy city. Warn the world, and put the ownership on notice.

[-] kinther@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago
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[-] Sarmyth@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I call and complain for crap like this all the time now. I make sure to let them know I bitch to all my friends and coworkers about it too.

My latest crusade is restaurants that put 4% service fees to help pay for people's health insurance. Just raise the price on the individual items on the menu. Making me math out what you are actually charging like that is bullshit.

[-] Aarrodri@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

Fuck tips. 0 tips. Pay your people.

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[-] hakunawazo@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

If your employees rely on tips to meet months end, your business model is shit.

[-] Allemaniac@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

whenever I see a "suggested tip for your inconvenience" I feel the urge to research (aka google) their reported earnings for the last economical year, calculate their profit margin and write that in the tip line and to pay their employees better instead of trying to shift the costs onto the customers with scammy guilty conscience. Fuck establishments like that, especially those who are then trying to conceive you ONTOP of the already bs tips

[-] 93maddie94@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago

Not saying this isn’t real and completely scummy, but sometimes the tip is calculated before discounts, gift cards, and whatnot. I always tip based on what our total order was even if what we paid was less. If this is truly trying to fudge the numbers to take advantage of people then that’s shitty.

Also, the restaurant probably has no control over those numbers. The software might give them a Yes/No option on showing suggested tips or not at best.

[-] 93maddie94@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago

It looks like the percentages are based of a total of $37.95, so it’s possible there was a discount included that made their total closer to $30.

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[-] vga@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 week ago

The whole tip thing is a scam to begin with.

[-] Korne127@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Tips in the US must be entirely out of control. In my experience, 10% is for good service, above for rare exceptional and less if you weren't entirely satisfied. Not even printing anything below 16 is insane.

[-] ghostlychonk@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Tipped minimum wage in the US is $2.13/hour, hence the reason for the high percentages.

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[-] firewyre@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago
[-] FilthyShrooms@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Stop tipping culture. If you just stop tipping people who rely on tips, you just make their lives much harder

[-] undefinedValue@programming.dev 2 points 1 week ago

Ok genius, tell us how to stop tipping culture without stopping tipping?

Pass a law that removes the minimum wage exemption for "tipped" professions.

[-] Zidane@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

What a coincidence I just put on my lawmaking socks!

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[-] Fabian@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago

Laughing in European

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[-] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I have yet to encounter an automatic tip calculation that doesn't base the tip on the total bill including taxes. It’s a pretty infuriating cash grab. Not only am I directly having to pay an employee’s wages so the restaurant doesn’t have to, I’m having to tip the government, too? (Yeah, I know the government doesn’t get the tip)

[-] MystikIncarnate@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago

Tipping, specifically in the original context of restaurants, I will still do, simply because the government needs to change the minimum wage so that servers are included. They're currently a protected group that is allowed to be paid far less than minimum wage, and they are supposed to make up the difference in tips.

In every other context, wow me and I'll tip you, otherwise, don't expect shit.

If you did your job as you are expected to do, then I don't see why I need to tip.

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