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[-] samus12345@lemmy.world 124 points 10 months ago

Still means "bested" to me. I'm not hip to sexual slang.

[-] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 62 points 10 months ago

Clearly you are if you know what type of slang "topped" is lol

[-] veroxii@aussie.zone 109 points 10 months ago

At my age I just assume anything I don't know is sexual.

[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 68 points 10 months ago

Don't you come "bussin' no cap" at me young man, I'm happily married.

[-] veroxii@aussie.zone 31 points 10 months ago
[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 28 points 10 months ago

Are you... are you hitting on me?

[-] Syltti@lemmy.world 12 points 10 months ago

Reading all this, I gotta ask; Did it work?

[-] jballs@sh.itjust.works 25 points 10 months ago

Yes, veroxii and I are married now.

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[-] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 10 points 10 months ago

Neil : "Ah, here's one. This means that someone has just done something which has never been done before. 'Richard Moore of Sugarland, Texas, hollowed out an eggplant and filled it with hot sauce and nickels.' And amazingly, it's not a weird sex thing. 99% of all new human behaviors are weird sex things. But not in this-- oh, no, it is a weird sex thing, yeah."

[-] samus12345@lemmy.world 27 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

It's clearly sexual from the context of the meme. Pretty much any time this happens, it's sexual in nature. Otherwise it would just be confusing rather than presented as humorous.

[-] Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com 37 points 10 months ago

"Topping" means taking an active role in sex, whereas "bottoming" is a passive role.

[-] Enkrod@feddit.de 19 points 10 months ago

Nyeah... partly.

If that were entirely true, a "power bottom" would make no sense.

The terms sexual usage originated in gay circles where it only delineates who penetrates and who gets penetrated. Traditional views on sex ascribe a submissive or passive role to the bottom and an active or dominating role to the top, but you can totally have a power bottom who takes control and an active role in the intercourse but is the one getting penetrated.

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[-] meleethecat@lemmy.world 91 points 10 months ago

At least she didn’t pull a boner.

[-] thesporkeffect@lemmy.world 38 points 10 months ago

I'll show them how many boners Betty can make!!

[-] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 8 points 10 months ago

She can pull three boners simultaneously

[-] AceQuorthon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 65 points 10 months ago

My favorite is the Nixon campaign buttons that says "They Can't Lick Our Dick"

[-] the_joeba@lemmy.world 85 points 10 months ago

That's not a language change, they knew.

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[-] merc@sh.itjust.works 62 points 10 months ago
[-] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 10 months ago
[-] NewAgeOldPerson@lemmy.world 12 points 10 months ago

You shall rue this day apparently.

[-] Johanno@feddit.de 16 points 10 months ago

What's the actual meaning of boner?

[-] gwen@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 10 months ago
[-] x4740N@lemm.ee 8 points 10 months ago

I'm assuming boner here means mistake but actual boners can be mistakes sometimes and lead to unintended consequences

[-] OmnislashIsACloudApp@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago

I half remember being told this originally came from bonehead. so like a bonehead would make a mistake like that. which then got shortened to boner.

[-] jenny_ball@lemmy.world 4 points 10 months ago

there was an 80s kids show where one of the characters was literally named boner lolllll

[-] Maven@lemmy.zip 56 points 10 months ago
[-] Leate_Wonceslace@lemmy.dbzer0.com 54 points 10 months ago

Good for her.

[-] Silentiea@lemmy.blahaj.zone 43 points 10 months ago

I dunno, the looks on the bystanders faces implies it's got the same impact as it might today.

[-] Socsa@sh.itjust.works 32 points 10 months ago

Get topped idiot

[-] butter@midwest.social 30 points 10 months ago

What is this supposed to have meant?

[-] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.world 115 points 10 months ago

She got one upped, outdone, lost to her rival, and now needs to take it in ass again from her.

[-] klemptor@startrek.website 51 points 10 months ago

Mmmhmm, yup, yeah, wait...wut??

[-] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 7 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

I've seen the source, it's all true. That's why they eventually formed a poly triangle with Archie, and, occasionally, The Predator.

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[-] Tylerdurdon@lemmy.world 12 points 10 months ago

But as an old fucker, I don't know the current meaning.

[-] fushuan@lemm.ee 16 points 10 months ago

the same one, but it's used in a sexual context. Being the top is being the dominant one on a relationship, sexually speaking.

[-] Tylerdurdon@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago

Oohhhhhhhh. Thanks

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[-] PugJesus@lemmy.world 29 points 10 months ago

Something like "one-upped", I believe.

[-] TeoTwawki@lemmy.world 28 points 10 months ago
[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 25 points 10 months ago

Bottom energy.

[-] germanatlas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 10 months ago

I wish that was me

[-] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 10 months ago

!yurimemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone

[-] mctoasterson@reddthat.com 9 points 10 months ago

This apparently changed around the same time people stopped using "Give 'em the high hard one".

[-] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 9 points 10 months ago

If you want some cultural whiplash, read the first Archie comic. You'll know why when you get there.

I read it, no clue what you were referring to

[-] Daxtron2@startrek.website 6 points 10 months ago

I read it just and there was definitely some very 1940s lingo but was there one in specific that you were referring to?

[-] TheRealLinga@sh.itjust.works 6 points 10 months ago
[-] mindbleach@sh.itjust.works 6 points 10 months ago
[-] PraiseTheSoup@lemm.ee 26 points 10 months ago

lol I'm not reading 60 pages of ancient manga for a single joke

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[-] don@lemm.ee 5 points 10 months ago

As another example, the man isn’t queer at all.

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