Nuked!
Haha nooo living together would be fine! It's not like I don't enjoy seeing my partner. The pain factor is more about the obligation to stay in constant contact (check phone etc). For some reason that makes me feel like I can't switch off and relax.
Maybe this is just my house hobbit ways but I do not like being easily reachable. My phone is on DND almost all the time. How do people think if you can be interrupted by a buzz or a ding or a whatever at any second??
And lol I can't imagine living together with someone and not wanting to see them more than once every two days. Into the cellar with ye wench!
Asian ploughman's lunch! Toast, Vietnamese pate, pickles, cheese. Mandarin orange not shown. No beer though.
Arg. Sorry yall, there's an issue with image uploading. We've added to this open bug on github. And we'll try to get a workaround installed on our side. In the meantime:
- Image upload definitely works via Memmy on iOS.
- On desktop, you can upload to imgur and link it here like this:
![](https://imgur.com/yourimage.jpg
for it to appear inline.
I... think so? I think it's more fun to date someone who has their own independent life. That said, this is why I'm choosing not to relationship now. IMO there's probably a minimum level of engagement needed.
I'd prefer not to until we install a patch, since the exploit seems viral in nature (compromise one instance, use that to compromise the next, etc). So trusting one is like trusting all
We're testing that in dev so we might refederate later tonight. Or maybe tomorrow
No problemo. Seriously, thanks for the concern! And yeah we think we're as safe as we can make us for the time being.
Welcome! :)
Heya, pinging as FYI that I saw this but I'll get back tomorrow! Sorry, this deserves more thought and I don't have any more time for today. :(
(Btw, I also owe you some replies on Notion comments - the dang thing doesn't send notifications when changes are made, but I recently noticed you had left a few comments - sorry as well and thanks!! FYI the technical team was having some trouble with that too and we ended up just manually tagging each other on every response...)
Hmm I agree we're almost at the point where we need structure on point 2. I'll try to get to this in the next 2-3 weeks. So far each community is doing very well and our users are chill. But you're right, if we succeed in growing the site, this is coming.
On point 1, I'd like to keep this completely free and easy for as long as possible. Treating reddit itself as a case study, there's nothing wrong with having subs with slightly weird names, or reclaiming them if neglected. There's way more benefit from giving people the feeling that they can create absolutely any subcommunity they want here! That's something both r/my and LYN can't offer. I'm hoping an admin-mod coordination channel will be sufficient to resolve any frictions until we're way larger.
Can do, you have to make a post or comment in each so I can mod you!
Edit: Wups I see you have, modded!
Hmm you make a very good argument.
However! I am lazy. And I prepared for this situation. I have emergency stewed pork belly stored in the freezer.
Let's see if I can work up the energy tomorrow though lol