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Come into my house with shoes on and you'll be lucky to leave alive

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[-] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Was recently discussing with someone that it's really weird that, on the internet, Britain is repeatedly labelled a "shoes on indoors" society, because nobody we know has shoes on indoors (in their own home). Britain is a wet and muddy country.

Does anyone here do shoes on indoors? Where are you all from?

[-] Armand1@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago

I've seen both in the UK. Personally, I'm a shoes off guy. Means less cleaning needed.

[-] Axolotl_cpp@feddit.it 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

For me, in Italy it's both, in 90% of the cases the situation is like:

You get in, remove the shoes and go barefoot/with slippers, if it's like a party, festivity etc etc, usually no one cares to get off the shoes

[-] betterdeadthanreddit@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago

There's obviously no need for durable footwear when your whole country is a boot.

[-] logi@piefed.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

Living in Italy, both Rome and North, the floors are cold in the winter. We wear slippers at home and tell guests to keep their shoes on until spring.

[-] Apytele@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah I'm US and my parents were always at least annoyed if we wore our shoes further into the house than right by the door.

[-] PlzGivHugs@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It might be in including having slippers or "indoor shoes". Nigeria is there as a shoes on, but from my understanding, its only slippers/flip flops specificly for indoors, that are normal.

Edit: Talked to my Nigerian friend, shoes off is expected, and slippers are just a personal preference. The map is just wrong.

[-] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 weeks ago

Canada is labelled as shoes off but we also have slippers.

Although not sure about Nigeria, are slippers and flip flops like expected to be worn or just available?

For me I have slippers which are worn often but it's not expected that anyone inside wear them. Most people just wear socks if they come to visit. And myself I go barefoot unless my feet get cold then I grab the slippers.

[-] PlzGivHugs@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 weeks ago

Although not sure about Nigeria, are slippers and flip flops like expected to be worn or just available?

In my (limitted) experience, its expected. When I visited a friend who was Nigerian, they offered me slippers to wear in the house, and they felt uncomfortable going barefoot in my (Canadian) house.

[-] Pyr_Pressure@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah that's probably why it's labelled as shoes on then I imagine and why Canada is labelled shoes off since any sort of foot covering is expected / not expected.

[-] fiat_lux@lemmy.world 0 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Same for Japan. No chance they're wearing full hiking boots or sneakers inside the house in Japan - the shoe cabinet is built in right next to the front door of houses, tiny apartments, temples, many restaurants, etc. I assume the schools still do too.

[-] Lucky_777@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

US here. Depends really. If I'm working around the house I like my shoes on but when it's time to shutdown. They off, maybe some flip flops if I head out to the pool

[-] CelloMike@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

UK too, shoes off too, have never lived anywhere where shoes on indoors was a common thing

The only reason I can think is that underfloor heating is relatively rare here and if you've got hard floors it'll be cold to walk on, but then slippers exist so idk really

[-] aleph@piefed.social 1 points 2 weeks ago

Grew up in the UK, in a "shoes on" household. We just gave them a good scrape on the doormat when coming inside.

Since then, I've lived in a few different countries and am 100% converted to the shoes off way of being. I agree it's much better.

[-] seathru@quokk.au 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Does anyone here do shoes on indoors?

In/out doors doesn't really make a difference. If I need shoes outside, I'm probably wearing them inside. And vice versa.

It would be different if I had carpet. Carpet is impossible to thoroughly clean in situ. I would never want outside shoes on non-rental carpet. But I've got 100+ year old hardwood floors that have seen way worse than I'm tracking in.

[-] LodeMike@lemmy.today 1 points 2 weeks ago

Same for the U.S. Sometimes downstairs or in common areas for guests.

[-] AnyOldName3@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

I reckon it depends on how warm someone's home is and how good their circulation is. If I don't have shoes on indoors, then for half the year it feels like my feet have been stabbed because they get so cold (slippers are not enough), but I don't wear the same shoes indoors as outdoors. I suspect that if we set the heating higher and the house wasn't constructed in a way that makes the floor always much colder than a few inches above the floor, this wouldn't be a problem.

[-] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago

That's interesting, I hqve a different experience - i used to have horrible foot circulation as a kid but i got into the habit of never wearing socks in my house (don't like the texture, enjoy feeling air on feet and them being cooler) and i haven't had the bad foot circulation since then.... as far as i can tell. I have been wearing them for this winter though.

[-] Darkmuch@lemmy.world 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

To me, the big decider is plush carpets. The first level of my house is mostly hardwood and tile. The second floor, and living rooms have plush carpets. So if someone is unloading a car, getting ready to leave, or just general in/out stuff, sure leave the shoes on. Once you’ve decided to stay, get those shoes off and be welcome in the cozy areas of the house.

Which, coincidentally, is also the areas where other warm stuff is.

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