I HATE DARK FOREST THEORY
I HATE DARK FOREST THEORY
For real though, I agree with you: the kill-or-be-killed chuddery that infests most contemporary science fiction concepts of aliens is creatively poisonous to me.
I think it's also related to more recent fads of "the universe is empty of all sapient life except Humanity Fuck Yeah jackoffs that want resources" settings. Even the possibility of peacefully sharing the stars in science fiction with non-human entities has become repulsive, scary, or "woke" to typical contemporary sci-fi consumers.