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[-] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 14 points 1 week ago

I used to work in management for a Fortune 100 company, and they'd send people around for little afternoon management seminars on one thing or another (usually sexual harassment stuff).

One day, one of the visitors mentioned that money wasn't even in the top 5 reasons that people work, and tried to move on from that, but I stopped them, and made them repeat it, and then said "Well that's not true at all. It's literally the ONLY reason ANYONE goes to work."

They tried to argue it, but I just said "If it's a Payday Friday, and the boss doesn't hand out the paychecks, and tells everyone that there won't be any future paychecks, but they'll see everyone on Monday, the boss will walk into an empty office on Monday. Nobody works for any reason other than a paycheck "

And that was a great job, that almost everybody reading this would enthusiastically grab without thinking twice, but nobody is going to do it for free.

[-] hotshotgotrhymes@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

That's a great call-out, i would think about that for years afterwards and feel good

[-] Diddlydee@feddit.uk 8 points 1 week ago

We expect our management to know when to use 'an' instead of 'a'.

[-] hakase@lemmy.zip 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

So much badlinguistics in this subthread.

Edit: Instead of responding to individual comments, I'll just put what's going on with "a" and "an" here:

This alternation is a morphophonological process (specifically a sandhi alternation), whereby in native, fluent speech for most dialects of English, "a" is unconsciously placed before words beginning with a consonant, and "an" is unconsciously placed before words beginning with a vowel.

In contrast to what many people in this subthread seem to think, this is NOT to "ease pronunciation". This is easily demonstrable since "a" and "the" have the same vowel sound in fluent speech (for most dialects of English), but while we get "a cat" but "an apple", we don't get "the cat", but "then apple". This alternation, therefore, is not a regular part of English speakers' phonology (that is, part of the regular, unconscious processes that occur between sounds in all environments), but rather an idiosyncratic part of English's morphophonology, in that it's a phonological process that only happens in the presence of certain morphemes (simple words or word-pieces).

Why is this the case? Because "an" was originally just the word "one" that became reduced over time until it took on its own separate grammatical function, and later there was a regular sound change whereby "n" was deleted in certain specific unstressed environments before consonants, leaving an accidental alternation between "a" and "an" as a result of sound change.

This means that the "a"/"an" alternation in Modern English is not to "ease pronunciation" in any way - like with many phenomena in English (and all languages for that matter), it's just a vestigial remnant of an accidental historical process.

We know this is the case because the exact same thing happened to "mine", and in earlier dialects of English there was a similar alternation, "my cat", but "mine uncle". This alternation later collapsed in most dialects into our modern my/mine distinction, adding further evidence to the conclusion that this is not a phonological alternation, but a morphophonological one.

What all of this means, is that for a native English speaker that still has an "a/an" distinction (I don't have one in my dialect, for example - I put "a" before everything when speaking fluently: "a cat", "a apple"), if they don't put a pause between "a" and "I'm" to signal the quoted speech, they would likely say "an I'm", and if they do put a pause between "a" and "I'm" to signal the quoted speech, they would likely say "a I'm".

Because "a" and "mindset" aren't in a local configuration to each other, they will have no morphophonological influence on each other whatsoever (just like in "an able mindset", for example).

So, while I won't say that saying "it's 'a' because of 'mindset'" is wrong (because right/wrong aren't really useful terms when describing language), I will say that it does not conform to the linguistic behavior of native English speakers when speaking fluently.

Feel free to respond to this comment with any follow-up questions you have, and I'll be happy to answer them.

[-] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago

I'm not disagreeing with your larger point but I don't necessarily buy the part of your explanation saying

This is easily demonstrable since “a” and “the” have the same vowel sound in fluent speech (for most dialects of English), but while we get “a cat” but “an apple”, we don’t get “the cat”, but “then apple”

because in most dialects (at least of American English) "the" before a consonant uses ə while before a vowel sound it's ē.

[-] Bubs@lemmy.zip 0 points 1 week ago

Would it be "an"? Does the a/an rule apply to whatever the next word is or does it apply to the word it is targeting? "An mindset" would be incorrect.

[-] CatZoomies@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

In American English, the article “an” is used for a vowel sound to separate the words so they don’t blend together when speaking.

Normally, “a” always precedes a consonant, while “an” precedes a vowel. But “an” also precedes vowel sounds - i.e., the sound of the letter of the beginning of a word.

  • An apple
  • A banana
  • An hour

Hour starts with a consonant, but is pronounced with a vowel sound at the beginning. Thus, it is not “a hour” and rather “an hour”.

In the case of the example from the meme, id argue that either article works:

  • A “I’m…” - Typically when speaking, a person has a brief pause before they begin the quote. Since that pause would be enough to distinctly indicate two separate words, this sounds fine when being verbally spoken.
  • An “I’m…” - Looks great in text and would be the correct way to list it grammatically. However when speaking this aloud, since the person would have a brief pause when saying “an” and then the quote, it probably wouldn’t sound as great to some others.

My take - I like “an ‘I’m…’” best. Both in text and verbal form. Others may disagree as far as verbally said; however, grammatically in written form this is how it should be.

Edit: Fixed the inevitable autocorrects from typing this on mobile.

[-] evening_push579@feddit.nu 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

~~English being my second language, from why I’ve learnt, “a […] mindset” is correct.~~

Edit: I stand corrected

[-] philthi@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Native English speaker here. This is incorrect, the "n" is added for phonetic help "a elephant" involves an awkward break between the two words, so enter "n" to help mouth muscles work around that.

This is the same reason for weird artifacts like: "a unicorn" because unicorn starts with. "Yoo" sound and so mouths don't need the help of the "n" to break up the awkwardness.

[-] ChonkyOwlbear@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

The rule I've always used is that if the first letter of the word immediately following it is a vowel, it's "an" and if it isn't use "a".

For example, "an apple" or "a potato". If there is an adjective, go by that first letter, for example "a large apple" or "an average potato".

[-] TheGenuineGT@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

For anyone scrolling, I've followed a similar rule. Except an is used anytime the following word makes a phonetic vowel sound. E.g ah, eh, ee, oh, ooh

[-] squaresinger@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Tell that to British midlanders: "Can I have a glass of wo'a?"

[-] DarkDarkHouse@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 week ago

Or when they ask for a nonion.

[-] jaennaet@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago

Fun English facts: "apron" used to be "napron", but "a napron" was eventually incorrectly split into "an apron". Same with "adder" which used to be "naddre", and "umpire" which was "noumpere"

[-] MNByChoice@midwest.social 3 points 1 week ago

What could the motivations of the owner be, if not to make money?
Please add to my list:

  • prestige
  • tax avoidance
  • boost retirement savings (in the USA, business owners can stuff their retirement accounts with LOTS of cash.)
  • Create and disguise a "sex pad"
  • improve the community by providing jobs and/or needed services (start a coffee shop so that there is a coffee shop.)
  • time filler

Of those, I think a very healthy 401K contribution from the employer to the employee would be motivating to those already paid well.

Many employees already use the business as a sex pad. (Conference rooms can be gross.)

[-] Dasus@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

tax avoidance

that's money bro

[-] lolrightythen@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I would substitute "shock and awe" in place of prestige - but that is just personal flair.

Civic duty with a taste of all the above is my addition. I've worked in natural resource conservation of public land and municipal utility. It can be controversial, but its a net positive to me.

[-] mechoman444@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Gotdang.

Do these people think selling some kind of proprietary software or some shit is game changing new age shit? Jesus. People just want a decent place to live.

[-] LillyPip@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

Good, then I don’t expect us to be ‘family’, since my family would understand that treating me like shit would ruin our relationship.

Soooooo…

[-] mEEGal@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

look closely, it's AI slop yet again

[-] Capricorn_Geriatric@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Then treat your employees like humans, not human resources. That means sick days at the very least. If you want to be respected more, then start respecting your employees more.

[-] cRazi_man@europe.pub 1 points 1 week ago

No one calms down by being told to calm down.

No one gets a better attitude by being told to have a better attitude.

[-] Capricorn_Geriatric@lemmy.world 0 points 1 week ago

And please show me where I didn't say that.

[-] monkeyslikebananas2@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I think they were adding to your comment not contradicting it… calm down!

[-] Deflated0ne@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Well. They're right. There is no reason to be there other than money. All the passion for logistics or predatory bullshit or whatever is concentrated in the c-suite. All us wage slaves are just that. Slaves. We are there under duress. We live in a constant state of extortion. We're forced to whore ourselves so we can pay various rents, taxes, and for sustenance.

[-] 13igTyme@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I might like what I do, but take away the money and I'd not be here. So yes, money is the core reason.

[-] CrowAirbrush@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Yeah and i didn't expect to work this hard for an ever decreasing buying power.

But here we are so fuck off.

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