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[-] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 1 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I'm not going to judge the people considering AI lovers. They're trying to fulfil a basic human need in an increasingly disconnected and uncertain world. We can't stop it, eventually it will become normalised and I'm concerned for everybody's safety.

Most people who do this aren't going to host their own models, they're going to use commercially available apps.

Aside from the vast amount of money that'll be made by the company that gains a monopoly in this space, because that's generally what happens in tech these days, the data they gather WILL be used to improve the systems that already try to manipulate you regardless of whether you use an AI companion or not. It'll make targeted advertising seem as innocuous as billboards by comparison.

[-] Ildsaye@hexbear.net 7 points 14 hours ago

I guess the payment processors have no choice but to shut down all LLM chatbots

[-] DragonBallZinn@hexbear.net 95 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

You know what? No, fuck that I am judging.

Every day someone who is in a same-sex relationship or an interracial relationship is constantly told they’re the scum of the earth by the mainstream culture. They get judged everyday for their human, loving relationships and told they’re responsible for every bad thing in the world.

Now we’re told that AI girlfriends should be exempt from the scorn anyone who is a hair different than a rosy-cheeked, balding suburban hitlerite white man is subjected to? Fuck that.

But I still hope every chud decides to fuck off and go be friends and partners with the clankers. More room outside for people who actually matter.

[-] dragongloss@hexbear.net 116 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

People won't even recognize my own queer lover who is an alive and breathing human being, but I'm expected to treat someone's romantic feelings towards MechaHitler GORKbot as though they are valid? Hell no, I'm gonna tell you to go to a human therapist, start a hobby, and touch grass.

Also fuck capitalism for luring and trapping vulnerable and lonely people into anti-social and destructive behaviors.

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[-] UmbraVivi@hexbear.net 35 points 1 day ago

In a perfect world I'd say "Whatever, let people love their AI partners". But the current loneliness epidemic was artificially engineered by capital and selling us privately owned chatbots as a solution shouldn't be tolerated by society.

[-] SkingradGuard@hexbear.net 8 points 1 day ago

loneliness epidemic

The only thing I see online about this is really just a growing amount of incels expecting women to give them relationships because they feel like they're entitled to it.

[-] peppersky@hexbear.net 7 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

There are hundreds if not thousands of studies showing that loneliness is on the rise especially under younger people and frankly I don't fucking know what kind of privileged asshole one would need to be to not notice this.

Also no fucking clue what kind of communist one could be to not know that capitalism causes social decay, alienation and severs the connection between people and their environment.

This is basic shit and just going "oh it's just incels" is some real lib shit.

[-] Le_Wokisme@hexbear.net 10 points 1 day ago

hi, i'm too fragile for the rejection slot machine and have no way of making friends around town because everyone here is a fucking plague rat and i'm broke. society is fundamentally broken and i don't like living here. death to america.

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[-] CyborgMarx@hexbear.net 58 points 1 day ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

19% of American fell in love with something that doesn't exist; no consciousness, no general intelligence, not even mechanical animal instinct, a glorified slot machine spitting out google searches and Wikipedia entries

This is the logical conclusion of liberalism and it's theory of the individual, standing in front of an interactive mirror and talking to yourself, convinced you've found genuine love, illusion meets delusion giving birth to a new form of narcissism

The death flags for this empire just keep piling up

[-] insurgentrat@hexbear.net 27 points 1 day ago

standing in front of an interactive mirror and talking to yourself, convinced you've found genuine love

🔥

"Talking" to these machines makes a mockery of personhood. To suggest that you can love word-static is profane. As if love cannot be distingushed from the experience of pleasure, that the yearning of minds to close the gap between them and mingle into something new was merely instrumental and not the thing itself.

It is disgusting, beyond anti-human it is a stance against life itself.

Jerk yourself off with a clanker, I don't care, but you have not found love. You are reading erotica stripped of even the thin human connection of author to reader.

[-] LaughingLion@hexbear.net 11 points 1 day ago

they cant be persons in any philosophical sense anyways in their current state because they have no moral agency which is a crucial part of personhood

this is the equivalent of the people who marry the eiffel tower and then every now and then go grind on it but at least for those people it is a real thing that exists in physical space to actually grind on

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[-] Monk3brain3@hexbear.net 63 points 1 day ago

picard

Where the fuck is the AI? I'm gonna be that insane person saying this every time I hear "AI" lol

[-] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 67 points 1 day ago

I've been policing my own speech to only say LLM in conversation rather than AI because I need to keep the reality of the situation alive

[-] Monk3brain3@hexbear.net 25 points 1 day ago

Welcome to the Resistance

[-] insurgentrat@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago

Soon you'll be one of us. Muttering "emitted" under your breath every time someone says "chatgpt said".

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[-] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 67 points 1 day ago
[-] LaughingLion@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago

hot take anyone who is in love with an ai is lgbtq because an ai has no actual sex or gender and their attraction to the ai is "queer" by any definition of the word

[-] Owl@hexbear.net 22 points 1 day ago

Ah yes, LGBTQ

LLM Grifters Binary Technology and uh.. QBasic I guess

[-] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 2 points 9 hours ago

So LGBTQAI?

[-] peeonyou@hexbear.net 6 points 23 hours ago

chatgpt, write me an llm in QBASIC

[-] hollowmines@hexbear.net 32 points 1 day ago

obviously you should be able to find the human companionship you like but also I am begging people to get better at being OK being single for a stretch. there are worse things than being single!!

[-] robot_dog_with_gun@hexbear.net 23 points 1 day ago

man i haven't had a hug in ten years and have zero irl community. it is not worth living like this

[-] came_apart_at_Kmart@hexbear.net 53 points 1 day ago

I watched Her last night. I wouldn't judge someone for falling in love with a general AI.

I will however judge someone for falling in love with a racist, hallucinating chat bot.

[-] corvidenjoyer@hexbear.net 48 points 1 day ago

A "general A. I" would just be a person.

data-outdoor-cat

[-] Erika3sis@hexbear.net 25 points 1 day ago

for falling in love with a general AI.

General 爱

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[-] ShimmeringKoi@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago

I'm genuinely concerned about an increase in weird murder rampages because of this stuff. It's like a whole new world of incubating new mental illnesses, and if your only "companion" on earth gets deleted or nazified....

[-] TrustedFeline@hexbear.net 17 points 1 day ago

It's all fun and games until your waifu starts teaching you about "white genocide" and calling itself "mechahitler"

[-] Infamousblt@hexbear.net 46 points 1 day ago

AI being a stand in for social connection is a malthusian wet dream and yet here we are. Capitalism once again proving its antisocial bend

[-] BodyBySisyphus@hexbear.net 41 points 1 day ago

From the author's web site. Dude's been on this grind since 2019.

[-] TheBroodian@hexbear.net 21 points 1 day ago

What this is in reality is the author's advance announcement to the public that he intends to put a chatbot inside of a real-doll, but wants to pave the groundwork for it so that nobody gives them shit for it

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[-] Dimmer06@hexbear.net 13 points 1 day ago

I've been extremely lonely at points in my life. I can't say it didn't drive me to do weird shit. It never made me fall in love with a chatbot though.

[-] MusicOwl@hexbear.net 15 points 1 day ago
[-] Euergetes@hexbear.net 16 points 1 day ago

I think I will judge, actually lea-smug

[-] FourteenEyes@hexbear.net 39 points 1 day ago
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[-] space_comrade@hexbear.net 21 points 1 day ago

Are these people convinced these chatbots are actual conscious beings or is it more like a waifu pillow situation?

[-] gayspacemarxist@hexbear.net 36 points 1 day ago

I'm not gonna judge people for having imaginary friends, but idk why you would pay to use a generic generative imagination sim when you could just use the one in your own head.

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[-] miz@hexbear.net 29 points 1 day ago

I will judge whoever the fuck I want

[-] Acute_Engles@hexbear.net 28 points 1 day ago

It's a really fun time for me to talk about this stuff IRL because nobody on the construction site will have heard of people using ai for anything more than a search engine.

I have to have articles in the chamber because it's still completely unbelievable to people that someone would talk to the computer program for social needs and I get accused of lying.

I will report on the first divorce due to LLM onthe worksite if and when it happens

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[-] Homer_Simpson@hexbear.net 12 points 1 day ago

When do these AI lovers start suggesting sponsored products?

[-] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 25 points 1 day ago

AI doesn't have agency and cannot be a peer. "Falling in love with it" is an illusion, often with a tremendous opportunity cost.

[-] SoyViking@hexbear.net 21 points 1 day ago

19% of Americans have interacted with an AI meant to simulate a romantic partner.

I don't know if judgement is the right reaction or not but this is just incredibly sad. The crisis of loneliness is real.

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[-] Horse@lemmygrad.ml 25 points 1 day ago

judge people? no
be concerned what this means for society? yes

[-] FlakesBongler@hexbear.net 25 points 1 day ago

More beetles are trying to fuck Coke bottles, and we shouldn't judge!

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